Horny!

[mtc123]

I'm joining the air force at 18:
-women do you have any experience being romantically/sexually involved with men in the military?
-is it difficult to maintain marriage/relationship with a member of the military?
-and is it true that women love men in uniform? haha

[Brandye]

Wrong site for hook-ups.

Interesting. Poster edited to completely change the original message.

[dancingdoc2]

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[EloiseLynn]

Truthfully i would date a military boy agian
they have the way of wrapping you in so well and yeah that uniform does a lot
and it isn't that hard to keep a relationship you just have to want it

[noirblanc]

I'm in the military, so here are some things I've noticed:

-The job is/can be stressfull on the relationship. Specially the first years when you are training and you're not often able to have weekends off to see your partner or have time to call or write. If your partner doesn't know what they're getting themselves into (and they most likely don't, no matter how much they say they know what it's about!) they'll get stressed and possibly end up sick of always sitting around waiting with minimal contact from you.

-The above reason is why the military is rampant with betrayal within couples, whether both partners are military or one mil and one civilian. I couldn't keep track of how many friends got the calls this summer that they're girlfriends couldn't wait any longer and had found some nice guy who "listens, and cares, and laughs with me" type of stuff. [In the army, we call these guys "Jodies".]

-If you have an SO who is loyal, who is tolerant and independant ,then no problem (in theory). Because the last thing you need when on course, or on deployment is someone stressing because you weren't there to pick them up from work or didn't call when you said you would.

The military is not a job, it's a life style and not everyone can cope with it.

Just my 2 cents and some observations I've made first hand...and some I've suffered from.

edit: I didn't notice you were going Airforce. It's a different ball game, you guys don't work! haha just kidding, coming from an infanteer.

[Rouge]

From the lady's perspective, it can be quite a roller coaster, and many can't cope with it. They can feel lonely, deprived, unloved etc.

I don't generally feel the above as I ended up moving to where noirblanc was posted, rather than seeing him once every couple of months. That being said, out of his entire course, I'm the only girlfriend who moved (two provinces away!). I can feel very lonely, sometimes even depressed, and occasionally angry. Overall though, I wouldn't change a thing.

I can easily say that even if a girl moved to be with you, there's a large chance that they wouldn't wait. That being said, 99% of those girls wouldn't move with you.

The point: Yeah, it'll put a lot of strain on your relationships.

[funinthesun]

While many issues are common throughout the military, exactly what you will encounter will depend entirely on what you do inside of the military and the amount of new posts and types of posts that you will have. That will also depend quite a bit on your education level, as do most careers. This is especially true in the (ch)Air Force.