first time Stories!!!

[rifraf91]

im 14 my gf wants to try sex ...im ok with that but im nervous about what to do... i wanna know what most peoples were like so i can get used to the fact please be specific!!!!

[dancingdoc2]

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> my gf wants to try sex

By "sex", do you mean fooling around, making out, and maybe a h/j or b/j; or, do you mean sex as in intercourse?

Either way, there are several articles that you should read. I recommend going to the Index, and starting at the top of Page One and reading those articles that pertain to kissing, making out, dating, contraceptives, etc. Please read each one more than once, ask your girlfriend to read them and then discuss what you have read. Knowledge is empowering.

How long have the two of you been dating? I recommend spending several months just making out, divided up first with Necking, then later, Petting, on to Heavy Petting, all before getting to Foreplay or beyond. Do not be in a hurry to have intercourse. Get to know each other really really well, first.

Next, make this a rule: No birth control, no sex. You should have three types. Hers, yours, ours. Never rely upon your partner for your protection! Never rely upon both of yours and this is the reason for having a third back up, also. All this is explained in the article dealing with birth control. If you are going to fool around and engage in adult activities, you have to be adult about the responsibilities and consequences.

There is more to lovemaking than just plugging P into V and having a good time. Teen boys generally want to get their proverbial rocks off first and foremost. They may care for their girlfriend, yet when it comes to orgasms, we will say and do pretty much anything to get ours whether she gets one or not.

Next, girls want sex for different reasons than do boys. Do you know what the differences are? I suggest doing some reading. Jot down your questions and look for the answers within the articles.

After you have done your reading do not hesitate to ask questions or request clarification for anything you do not understand. This is why we are here, to make life easier for those following us.

I hope this is of help.

[Rouge]

are you ready for sex? I'd say not at your age. If you'd be ready to deal with an infection or a pregnancy, then you're ready.

[dancingdoc2]

When referring to "sex", you mean those activities up to but not including intercourse, then I say take your time over the next few months and work your way into more intimate and involved fooling around. Please read the article in the Index about this.

Just because the two of you have gone through puberty, this does not mean that you or your bodies are mature enough for intercourse and its possible consequences. You have to consider that anytime your penis is exposed, you are playing a version of Russian Roullete, only instead of one bullet in the cylinder of a six shooter, you have a fully loaded cannon and if it is aimed anywhere in the general direction of her genitals, she can become pregnant--intended or not, protected or not. Teens are more apt to have unplanned pregnancies than at any other time in their lives.

While you can engage in intercourse and enjoy the pleasures, having gone through puberty does not yet make a woman's body mature enough to have uncomplicated pregnancies. A girl's bones and chemestry need more time to develop. (Just a thought to keep in mind.)

If you mean "sex" as in intercourse, I'm with Rouge. Can does not automatically mean should. Give yourself a few more years. Besides, orgasms from a good round of Foreplay are more intense than those from intercourse. The emphasis with this has more to do with the psyches. So, be happy with a great h&b/j.

Again, please read the articles in the Index. You can never know "enough" or too much. Information and knowledge are empowering whether you use the information now or later.

[sexkitten05]

I just lost my virginity at 23, a few weeks ago to my boyfriend and it was a little awkward to say the least. I gave him a bj in the car before doing the deed in a park and we made out after we did the deed and he got hard again and I gave a combination of a bj and a hj and he ended up jacking off with me encouraging him.

[Browser]

If you're nervous, you're probably not ready.