What do i say to that?

[SexxCherri]

I've been dating my boyfriend for about a month now and I couldnt imagine not being with him. He's such a sweet, kind person, he's always optimistic (which gets on my nerves sometimes when im in a sucky mood..) and he's very passionate and romantic.

However, because he's very tall, i guess i always just assumed he had a large penis, but recently we decided to go further than foreplay and i must admit i was rather disappointed His penis is only about (give or take) 4 inches and not incredibly wide either.

Im used to dating guys with large, long, and thick penises, so when he began to try and penetrate me, well....lets just say it was the best performance ive put on since i was in one of my high school plays.. I faked an orgasm.

Then he started to finger me, and dont get me wrong, that felt AMAZING, but i want t get pleasure out of the broomstick, not the bristles if you catch my drift....

How am i supposed to tell my man that, well...he's "limited" when it comes to sex, and/ or how can i spruce things up without making him feel like he's not doing enough?

[Brandye]

You have a decision to make. If his size is so important that you think you will regularly be faking, it is not worth it for the long term. If the two of you work out a way to maximize his effectiveness, then you have a keeper.

A month is not a long time to have been dating. It would be easier to tell him things are not working out now than six weeks from now. His penis need not be mentioned; there are many women who will be quite satisfied with that.

[lnt1103]

Question: T and I have noticed that sometimes he's bigger than other times. Isn't it possible that, this having been early on in the 'escalation' of the relationship, he may not have been fully aroused and could be bigger later on when they figure each other out?

[SexxCherri]

but what happens if he doesnt get bigger? then what?

[captaincrunch]

get a pump if his size is so important than how he uses it and if i learned your faking it youd be history

[lnt1103]

Get over yourself Captain. Every woman either has or will at least once in her life. And believe it or not, in many cases it's probably meant to avoid his ego getting crushed.