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Old 09-01-2009, 04:50 AM
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This is embarrassing to ask but I've recently got into a new relationship and I want to make sure I'm doing the most to make our sex good. I'm overweight and I've had a bit of experience (its amazing how much age, time, and maturity makes sex encounters happen and fun) but I'm new to being in a big body while doing it. Our sex is actually pretty good (or at least we both seem to enjoy it) however I've had a little trouble with intercourse positions. Also it's kind of awkward because I'm uncomfortable with myself (mainly because I have so little experience with this. I don't like getting on top of her because it just feels awkward and I've never done doggy (I know that's pathetic but no ones ever asked for it or took the time to show me it) If anyone could offer some experience or assistance, it'd be much appreciated.

I'm already exercising every day and changed my eating habits. And it really feels great
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Old 09-01-2009, 07:50 AM
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You have started the most important things - diet and exercise. The excess weight is doing much damage than messing up your sex life. If that is the motivator, good on you, stay with it and you will have much more flexibility in what you can accomplish sexually. Especially as your girth is reduced and what hangs over your belt gets out of the way.

The woman on top approaches would likely be more comfortable for each of you. And many women, such as I, really like that. I suspect you would find doggy difficult because the depth of penetration is limited and your additional weight would not help that.
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Old 09-17-2009, 09:36 PM
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omg iam glad somone kind of askd the same question iam a 20 male over weight with a small penis but iv only had one complante and thats bc we didnt go in a relationship but anyways iam 260 lbs and i just dont no my gf is skinny as a twig lol so iam not sure if my weight has an issue with my size.
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Old 09-18-2009, 08:59 AM
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Lose the weight and...

you will regain much of your endowment's length.

How, because right now a lot of inches are covered by by the fatty skin.

Please do an advanced search using the name "brandye" and "pounds" as the topic. Read what she has to say in several of the hits.

While not official, one user stated that for every fourteen pounds lost, a person will recover an inch to their shaft; she did not disagree. So, while the numbers may not be accurate the action is.

Not only this, but you will be healthier. You will be less likely to get diabetes, and your skeleton structure will be carrying around less weight and this means you bones will be happier.
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