Three Girl Friends at Same time

[cacje]

i have three girl friends at that time, one is on other city, and two are in the city same with me. i am tired now , how can i do?

[Brandye]

You can trim your list. You need to develop your own criteria about who goes and who stays. It may be interesting to find out how many guys each of them is seeing.

[dancingdoc2]

Please click on the Index at the top of the main page and read those articles that discuss dating. I've written quite a bit about it so you can also search on my name and the topic.

Dating one, two, or three, people at a time is all well and good. Many of us here recommend dating openly because in part it eliminates all the drama and trauma that often crop up in exclusive relationships.

So, what to do?

> i am tired now , how can i do?

What has you tired?
* tired of interacting with three people at the same time?
* tired of going on dates with so many?
* unhappy with one or two or three and do not see the relationships going anywhere?
* other?

Dating does not begin and end with the first warm body who expresses an interest in us. Dating is all about learning what humanity has to offer us so that when Mr./Ms. Right does come along we will be better able to determine those qualities we want and then to recognize the person. Dating gives us the opportunity to learn about character, likes, dislikes, goals, values, quirks, etc.

Dating is all about having fun and if you are dating more than one person at a time, you have more opportunities for having a Friday and/or Saturday night out. You also have greater exposure to new activities. So, except for incompatibility, you shouldn't be tired because of the activities you get to participate in.

Please give us more information.

[cacje]

can you give me idea how to handle at this situation? do i need trim? thanks

[Brandye]

Stop contacting one or more or all of them .... after a proper "thanks, but good-bye."

[cacje]

thanks , i try to do that.

[wet_suit_one]

I still agree with Doc's view on dating (Brandeye seems to disagree). That said, most of the people in the world I live in, only believe in serial monogamy. Doesn't make much sense, but then nothing does here in the real world.

So it goes...

[cacje]

you know i am happy with them, i dont want to lost any of them. there are difference between each other

[cacje]

mILLION THANKS TO ALL