Watching porn with partner

[Tashakinnys]

Okay so me and my boyfriend for 13 months, we have a VERY active sex life and love trying new things. Me, him and a few other mates were having a conversation about sex and someone suggested we try watching porn together. Now I have nothing against porn, but i bored myself of it (watched too much me thinks :P ) but hes up for trying it and so am i but to be honest, im not realli fond of the idea of my boyfriend getting horny of another girl.
Am i just being silly? Im not the kind of person who likes to share. i mean i trust him with my heart and soul but i dont like the idea of him looking at other girls, get what i mean? So yeah i need opinions and advice on what to say without saying possesive.

[lnt1103]

Try to relax a little. Think of it more as a fantasizing tool than anything else. It's a jumping off point really. It will plant into his head seeds of ideas to try with you.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Of course pornography is BORING! Same old stuff. Been there, did that and it wasn't all that fun anyway. Yadda, yadda, yadda. And to top it all off the women are manufactured and the sex isn't real. Make a job out of sex and the sex becomes - work.

"but hes up for trying it and so am i but to be honest, im not realli fond of the idea of my boyfriend getting horny of another girl." and "but i dont like the idea of him looking at other girls, get what i mean?"

Why? What are you so afraid of? That you will lose him to some image on the box? Honey, that would be like him not letting you read romance novels for fear that you'll fall in love with the hero.

Jealous and Possessive - two of the most destructive traits any person, regardless of gender, can have.

Rid yourself of them.

[mikkiji]

My wife and I went thru periods of time when we'd get into watching together. Sometimes it could be distracting, especially if she'd start commenting on what was on-screen, "Look at those tits, they HAVE to be fake, " or "No WAY 2 real people could get into THAT position!", that kind of stuff--funny, but not very sexy when you come right down to it. However, more often we'd watch and then begin to do whatever was happening on the screen, imitate the action as close as we could. Now THAT could get VERY hot, because we'd have to go from this to that position, vary who was doing what to whom, and also that would often bring us to trying new things and also draw out our sessions much longer than they would otherwise last. Try it with an open mind and an attitude to please your partner.
Michael

[wet_suit_one]

This thread is so indicative how different men and women are. So indicative. Been there, done that (porn with gf that is), never again. There's just no point.