3some experience to share?

[adamORlacey]

My husband (of 13 yrs) and I are contemplating a 3some or me watching him penetrate 2 women. We both agree to no oral or anal. Does anyone have any positive or negative feedback from their experiences. People in LONG term relationships that have been monogamous.

[dlb]

It's not for everyone. The important thing is that both you and your husband feel comfortable and secure in your marriage before, during and after. I am surprised that the plan is for you to watch him frolic with two other women. Are you a voyeur. Why aren't you one of the women in the 3some, or 4some?

[Brandye]

For heaven's sake, do a search. There are dozens of threads on threesies

[adamORlacey]

Rude Brandye. I wouldn't have posted if I didn't want input. If you don't like this post, don't reply. Thanks dlb.

[Massdebator]

Adam, I'm not going to apologize for another member, but I say the following in the most polite way I know how:
Some members, especially really active ones, get tired of answering the same questions over and over again. It's common courtesy for newcomers to any internet forum to read up on rules and expectations, and search for previous posts relevant to your interests before posting. That's why internet helpdesks and CSRs run FAQs and backlogs of previously answered questions.
I'm not flaming you, but before you jump to conclusions on a poster's intended tone of voice or how much courtesy you deserve to be shown, think about how much courtesy you're showing others.

Otherwise, welcome to the board and I hope you find the information you've come to retrieve.

[Brandye]

No, adam, not rude; standard practice for repetitive postings. Posting in the first place without looking at what is available is rude. And posting the same item in two different forums is very rude.

This Board actually expects proper etiquette to be followed and it is one reason for its'great success.