Have any women ever known a bloke like this?

[sarah_rsl]

I was chatting with a mate on facebook today about this guy we knew when we were in the army. Well actually I shagged him a few times but..

Anywho he was a pretty terriffic bloke and pretty shit hot in bed, he'd said at the beginning he wasn't looking for a relationship but after spending a bit of time with him I was starting to think it was my loss. So after a few nights we finished on pretty good terms.

The thing about the army was that everybody knew everybody elses businness even though I asked him to be discrete I fully expected everybody to know when we got back to camp.

But this guy was so secretive, and I wasn't telling anyone cause I'd broken my own rule about not shagging anyone on camp.

Anywho nearly a year later I'm drinking with a few mates, and one of them blurts out that she'd shagged him. Someone else had been making jokes about him being gay he didn't have a gf and nobody ever saw him with any women.

So then another one of my mates blurted out that she'd shagged him as well, and so on untill we realised that of the 8 of us there he'd shagged 5.

Everybody said the same thing it lasted a few nights he said he didn't want a relationship and he wanted to keep it a secret. In my case he hadn't really had to encourage me cause like I said I'd always said I wouldn't shag anybody on camp.

So at first we got pissed although as we thought about it he was a good guy. Probably the only one any of us had met in the army that could keep a secret from his mated about who they were shagging. Any other bloke would have boasted to eveyone he met about shagging another squaddie.

There was one slightly creepy aspect to it he was given to taking knickers as souvineers. When he whipped mine of me (I was in a really good mood) I kind of figured they might end up in a drawer with a load of other womens but I didn't realise how big the drawer would have to be and that they would be filled with my mates.

Anywho anybody else ever come across a guy like this. Secretive not given to boasting or kiss and tell. In all the blokes I've met I never even heard of anyone like him. When I think about it now I'm even more curious...

[lnt1103]

Of seven people you met in the service, he slept with five including you, and none of you knew until a year later. It occurs to me that while he was keeping it a secret from his friends, he was also keeping it a secret from the other women around him, thus allowing his practices to continue. Heaven or hell hath no wrath like a woman scorned.

[sarah_rsl]

Originally Posted by lnt1103

Of seven people you met in the service, he slept with five including you, and none of you knew until a year later. It occurs to me that while he was keeping it a secret from his friends, he was also keeping it a secret from the other women around him, thus allowing his practices to continue. Heaven or hell hath no wrath like a woman scorned.

Of the eight of us there he'd shagged 5,

It wasn't a case of a woman scorned he wasn't cheating on us or anybody else. What makes it so remarkable really is how he managed to keep it secret.

I didn't have a problem although some of other women did, mainly with him keeping the underwear, although like I said at the time everybody agreeed to it so you couldn't just change your mind a year later. I didn't pursue it I think one or two others di though, but to be honest I encouraged everybody to forget about it.

[lnt1103]

I meant that by keeping it a secret so well he was able to AVOID anyone feeling scorned, so he didn't get a reputation, and could continue his adventures. If he'd leaked it to the guys, it would have gotten around to the girls, he'd have been 'outted' and women would have stopped giving him the time of day.

[sarah_rsl]

Originally Posted by lnt1103

I meant that by keeping it a secret so well he was able to AVOID anyone feeling scorned, so he didn't get a reputation, and could continue his adventures. If he'd leaked it to the guys, it would have gotten around to the girls, he'd have been 'outted' and women would have stopped giving him the time of day.

Well that's true, he certainly came out of nowhere. Before we hooked up I suppose I had a pretty high opinion of him, he was a nice guy, good at his job but really quite. Like I said I like a lot of people thought he was gay.

When we hooked up well all of a sudden he super confident very funny, quite polished really, it kind of threw me really which is part of the reason I was so up for shagging him,

I actually would consider it a pretty positive experience only for me discovering he'd been through all my mates as well, plus there was the whole knickers thing.