He has an erection, but what do I do?

[SadisticEuphoria]

Me & my ex have been meeting up as friends, but hug & stuff. When I hug him I can feel that he has an erection, which doesn't really bother me all to much. I just don't know how to respond because he knows I've noticed & I don't want to make a big deal of it because I think he gets quite embarrassed, which he needn't be. I really like him, his company respect him & I don't want him to feel uncomfortable & I don't want to not hug him because we both love our hugs. He quite often is the one hugging me first, so it's not like I should just stop hugging him.

What sort of things can I say or do to relieve the atmosphere & awkwardness on his part & let him know that it's fine, nothing to worry about & continue the night/day as normal.

By the way, Blowjobs/handjobs/sex are unfortunately not an option as he already has a gf. Unless I get him to cheat, which isnt an option cos I'd feel bad & his a decent guy, as I've found out.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by SadisticEuphoria

By the way, Blowjobs/handjobs/sex are unfortunately not an option as he already has a gf. Unless I get him to cheat, which isnt an option cos I'd feel bad & his a decent guy, as I've found out.

First you answered your own question.

Secondly you have already posted in another thread that your past relationship with him was not good. It is time to move on and find someone else.

Dating depression...

[SadisticEuphoria]

Im not trying to get him to cheat, I know dating him isnt going to happen, I just want to be able to hang out with him as a friend before he leaves. I may not see him again & probably wont.
So all I want is something to stop the awkwardness, he knows I notice, it'd be damn impossible not to notice! But so that he doesnt feel weird about it or think that im all 'Oh em gee, he must want me & love me, yada yada'. I know guys get erections throughout the day over practically nothing, its not a big deal to me & I dont want him to act different towards me because I like his company, as a friend.

[dancingdoc2]

OH! does this bring back a couple of memories....

If he is indeed embarrassed, my first thought would be he would back away a step and lean in or bend forward at the waist when walking up to hug you.

You could back away a bit if you do not want to be that close. Of course, you could also press up against him and say absolutely positively nothing.

As to what to say, well, you two have a history and you know his behavior with all this. Perhaps there is a cute quip that can be said to defuse any potential embarrassment.

[nuttychick]

lol it sure does bring back memories....

I had a purely platonic friend who would give me a hug and get an erection.. I just used to giggle and say "Hello Big Dave and little Dave" after a short time he was no longer embarrased and replied with "we are just fine thanks".... Even phone calls
started with "how are the Dave's today"

So either ignore it or make a joke of it

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

It is time to move on and find someone else.

Franklin..... Some people who have had a relationship still remain friends.... You may find this out one day...
Yes she will find a new lover but.... she may also stay friends with her EX for years to come..

[Sexiiperra]

Uhm duh girly lol take him in a room lock the door nd play round wit his dik.. :P suk it nd play wit his balls nd everythin don't b afraid to play wit his dik head then let him eat u out afta that u can fuk neway u 2 wanna xD or idk that's how I would play wit guys.. But I would dress up in sumthin 4 them nd torchur them

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by Sexiiperra

Uhm duh girly lol take him in a room lock the door nd play round wit his dik.. :P suk it nd play wit his balls nd everythin don't b afraid to play wit his dik head then let him eat u out afta that u can fuk neway u 2 wanna xD or idk that's how I would play wit guys.. But I would dress up in sumthin 4 them nd torchur them

Did you actually read the post before you spat out this txt rubbish?

Please in future take the time to digest what the OP has written then comment as appropriate in the proper written language

[dancingdoc2]

Sexiiperra, I suggest that you stop posting or replying to others until you have the knowledge and command of the English language to contribute with any authority.

I reviewed your last several posts and they have no constructive value, in fact a couple offer very poor advice.

Please stop spouting off just to see your words in print. You are hindering the cause.

[Brandye]

You and your ex? So why are you seeing him? The only way either of you will get over it is to have a clean break. This is a greater problem than his getting an erection.