Is it wrong to only be turned on by women with big breast?

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

My friends have told me that it is wrong to not like women with small breast. They say there are attractive women with small breast. Women with small breast always just turn me off. Is it wrong to only be turned on by women with big breast? I'm not attracted to women who are over weight so I am not talking about liking them.

[Ell]

This again????

[EvilEvilKitten]

He must have been bottle-fed. Always looking for his momma.

It isn't 'wrong' but it is limiting. Also be aware that if she has big breasts she more than usually has a big belly, big thighs, big ass and so on - all to go with it. So, how much fat can you stand? You were aware that breasts are mostly fat, right?

[Buck Naked]

You are what you are. Be glad it's breasts that are your turn on and not something that could get you arrested.

[Zr2_EQX]

Franklin is BACK!!!!! Yayyyyyyy!!!!! I am glad, I was worried we had not heard from him in some time! I am also glad to see he is asking STUPID questions again. Frankie, just go online and find a woman with big breasts. They don't fall from the sky.

[YHeloThar]

Depends dude, I have pretty high standards when choosing who to sleep with, but it is very hard to predict what a girl looks like naked. Most of the time the girl that looks hottest in the room with her clothes on is NOT once those clothes come off. Pretty much skinny girls with long hair look hottest with clothes on (but are typically actually built sorta like boys and have small tits), and then girls who looked a tiny bit heavier before but had a real waist and hourglass figure are the ones that look best naked and have the real pornstar build.

I think I went through 20 girls before I settled on my current girlfriend, that's about how rare it is to have a girl with both at least a C cup and still a skinny body. We're too young to be in the zone of breast implants on skinny chicks.

I'd say you should just concentrate on being a cool upbeat guy and sleep with everybody you can, make your judgements about how hot she is AFTER you have seen her with her clothes off (seriously).

There's a website somewhere I saw once about what pornstars look like with clothes on, and it's not great, but I'm telling you that its very rare to see as great bodies naked on girls that also look great in clothes.

[dlb]

There is nothing wrong with having a preference for large breasts, or blondes, or green eyes or any other physical feature, but it does limit you. I know I have had a lot of fun and some great friendships with women who were medium and small breasted.

[dancingdoc2]

I knew there would be good reasons not to reply to this last night.... Just look at all these great responses!

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

My friends have told me that it is wrong to not like women with small breast.

I agree. While we all have our preferences for body types (it makes the world go 'round), I believe you limit your options for who to have an interest in, date, and learn more about, if you place too much emphasis on a person's physical characteristics. What about her brain? This is the essence of who a person is, not the package it is housed in.

God forbid you end up with woman with a "Barbie doll" figure to be seen with yet with a mind that is devoid of intelligence and personality!

They say there are attractive women with small breast.

And, what do you see when you look out of your eyes at the world around you? Define attractive? Does this mean physical attractiveness? (Remember Twiggy?) Being captivated by her conversations and thus her mind? What?

Women with small breast always just turn me off. Is it wrong to only be turned on by women with big breast?

Oh, for heaven sake, do any of us really need to answer this? NO.

No more so than it is to have a liking for a certain hair color, hair style, stature, complexion, fanny shape, body proportion, smile, straight teeth--or not, etc., et cetera, etc.

I'm not attracted to women who are over weight so I am not talking about liking them.

So, what's the problem? There are plenty of men who are attracted to woman of stature. All you have to do is look around you while walking the mall. It is not at all unusual to find scrawny men accompanying a full-figured or even a fat women.

Right now guys your age are hitching their proverbial wagons to people they perceive as more this or that than themselves. Their conception of themselves is directly related to who whom they are seen and with whom they associate.

Franklin, there is more to you than your penis (whatever its size, shape, or inclination), just as there is more to a woman than breasts, whether her buttocks is flat, curvacious, or upturned--whatever, and so on and so forth. It will be a wonderful day when you discover the woman of your dreams, who captivates you with what she has to say and how she says it, dotes on you, yet has crooked teeth.

Be confident with who you are and look for someone who turns your head, not so much by how she appears, but from what she has to tell you. Listen to women, first, check for a twinkle in their eyes, a flip of their hair, and then let your eyes roam.

I've been married twice and have dated several women over the years. All are intelligent, articulate, captivating, and beautiful--each in their own unique way. No two had the same size breasts (and yes I also have a preference), hair style or color, or anything else the same.

Who you appear to be to others is not always predicated upon the person you are seen with. If you are interested in a long term relationship, then place more emphasis on brains and personalities than looks. When the looks eventually fade, it will be her smile, personality, and character, that see you thru to the end.

[dancingdoc2]

Speaking of breasts, Franklin, have you given any thought as to whether you have a preference for large or small Areolas, dark or light in color, nipples that are perky, of large or small diameter?

What about perky breasts or ones that droop slightly?

Oh, and then there is the matter of sensitivity. Small breasts that lie flat against the ribcage can be stimulated this way whereas larger breasts might not have this additional capability. Nothing major, just a plus in favor of smaller breasts.

Have you researched to learn whether or not smaller breasts are more sensitive for the same reason a clitoris is more sensitive than the glans of a penis?

See, Franklin, there may be more to this breast thing than meets the eye--literally or figuratively.

Now, let's for the sake of of this discussion say you have just potentially found the woman of your dreams, she is attractive, speaks well and actually has something to say, has a wonderful shape, straight teeth, the shape of her breasts against her blouse draw your attention, yet when you unwrap the package she has tiny nipples and huge dark areolas that you find unattractive. Now what? Be careful of your answer.

What's my point? That life is a series of compromises and in order to get the most of what you want, you may just have to accept one or more things that are not up to your ideals. This begs the question, what do you consider important. From your comments, it has little to do with personality, intelligence, friendliness, and the ability to interact and play well with others.

When you first began posting you were unhappy with your appearance and did not place much stock into what others had to say when they commented favorably about your picture. Now, I'm concerned that all the responses you are receiving on this thread will fall upon deaf ears. If so, why do we bother?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Want proof? Look again at the world around you and see all the different types of people who pair up as you walk thru the mall. Better me thinks to let your inner beauty out for others to see and hold in awestruck wonder and then to find a girl whose personality peaks your curiosity and imagination, whetting your appetite for more of her, body be damned. You'll be a much happier more contented person. You'll get to this point eventually.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

He must have been bottle-fed. Always looking for his momma.

It isn't 'wrong' but it is limiting. Also be aware that if she has big breasts she more than usually has a big belly, big thighs, big ass and so on - all to go with it. So, how much fat can you stand? You were aware that breasts are mostly fat, right?

That is not true. I have seen plenty of women(not in porn) who has at least a nice C cup or more who are not fat.


To DancingDoc2: I do look for what type of person the woman is. I look at the inside of the person as well. I really don't care if the woman's breast is natural or fake. I would not mind with they droop slightly but not way too much near the tip of her stomach. I never really thought about the areolas nor nipples. The size of both does not brothers me. They can be big or small.

In some cases I do believe the body is in the eye of the beholder but not in mine case. I won't date someone who does not apply to my standards. I'll be friends with the woman but nothing more.