More Cushion For The Pushing?

[SadisticEuphoria]

So Im a bit self-concious about my stomach, as are alot of my friends & most women I know.
The thing I hate most about my self is my stomach & my ass. It isn't extremely huge, but theres a bump there and I hate it so much! I constantly find my self cucking my stomach in as I walk around x_x
So, men, I ask you, is the saying 'More cushion for the pushing' true or just bullshit to make women not care so much so they can get themself laid? That is my theory anyway.
My ex-bf says a little bit of stomach is appealing, because it means the woman is healthy because of fertility, that women need a little bit of fat around their abdomen for babies. Hence, why alot of athletic & skinny women miscarry.

So personal opinions? Is it that big a deal and worth so many women (and men) being self concious about?
Also, any tips you have found on getting rid of that excess fat is welcome

[dlb]

Originally Posted by SadisticEuphoria

So, men, I ask you, is the saying 'More cushion for the pushing' true or just bullshit to make women not care so much so they can get themself laid? That is my theory anyway.
My ex-bf says a little bit of stomach is appealing, because it means the woman is healthy because of fertility, that women need a little bit of fat around their abdomen for babies. Hence, why alot of athletic & skinny women miscarry.

So personal opinions? Is it that big a deal and worth so many women (and men) being self concious about?
Also, any tips you have found on getting rid of that excess fat is welcome

Well if it were something we said just get laid that would mean that we men have no criteria at all other than a vagina and a pulse - yes wet_suit_one I borrowed your phrase there. Believe it or not, SadisticEuphoria, men often require something beyond mere media driven aesthetics to turn us on. There are men who actually prefer a little more meat on their women just as there are other men who prefer beanpoles. Some men like small breasts, some like medium breasts, some like large and others gigantic breasts; still others don't care. The same goes for buttocks.

Sexy women are comfortable within their own bodies and do not allow what might be considered imperfections to hinder them in their social and sexual intercourse. As for controlling the tummy I would suggest consistent diet low in fat and carbohydrates in combination with fairly regular exercise. It takes a while to get it off just as it takes a while to put it on.

What your ex boyfriend said about women with tummies being more fertile and that athletic and thin women are more prone to miscarriages is not true at all.

[Buck Naked]

For every body type there are members of the opposite sex that find it attractive. To me, my wife is one of the sexiest women I know. Would everyone think so? No. She's small in the breast department and has more of the petite "Lolita" body. I know that boob men would have not feel the same as me, but that's life. We find what we are looking for.

Some men lie to get laid, some men are straight shooters. Their actions speak louder then their words. My wife doesn't see what I see in her, but I married her and have been 110% faithful. I don't want anyone but her and I prove that each and every day.

[Brandye]

Apart from the sexual attraction be careful how much belly fat you carry. The fat stored around the middle is the most dangerous we carry around. There significant health benefits (like preventing heart disease) to keeping our abdomens fairly flat.