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[Mr. Saint]

I am kind of shock actually. All throughout high school and my first year of collage I was rather unsuccessful with women, one girl my freshman year and a girl in high school. Anyways now all of a sudden I have three girls interested. I lost about 15 pounds and started dressing well and what do you know, older girls like smart down to earth guy and not the stoner burn out loser or the jock. I am finally happy with my sex life.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Mr. Saint

older girls like smart down to earth guy and not the stoner burn out loser or the jock.

HELLO! Are you awake?
Of course, all women do! So you just figured this out????

This is across the board for women with men of all ages!

[Mr. Saint]

I am going to have to disagree with you. Not in high school, it just does not work that way.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Mr. Saint

I am going to have to disagree with you. Not in high school, it just does not work that way.

In H.S.? NO! The rest of the world? Yes!

You are not in HS! And I am not the cheerleader!

If a man came up to me and acted like a jock, I'd laugh my rump off, politely of course. Come up well dressed and intelligent? And add the attributes? Hard to get rid of me.

Yes, if I were her, I'd be doing the same, trying to seduce!

[Mr. Saint]

Trying to seduce a 17 year old? Just kidding. Thanks.

[Ducy]

Originally Posted by Mr. Saint

Trying to seduce a 17 year old?

Whats wrong with that?


Oh yea

[sera300]

Cute Ducy & Saint! No seduction, just good memories. There are times, I do have to think back to how I felt sooooo many years ago! Ah to be so naive...

No...the youngest who seduced ME was, well, 29! Hey, we all need somebody! He was good to go & so was I. Admittedly, he did better figuring it all out than the man 10 years my senior...and you wonder where I have been lately? busy!

[Visioneer]

For what it's worth-

I studied abroad in Costa Rica while in college. The hugging and kissing on the cheek - more or less the equivalent of shaking hands in the states. My host mother would do that when I got home from classes in the evening. A female professor did it when I went to her house to join her family for dinner one night. The hand on the leg, if it's just a friendly pat then no big deal. If it stays there for a while, it's another story.

[arutha]

Sounds to me like she is an attention whore. What you say is classical signs. They flirt with everyone, make you feel so important to them, get you really worked up, then when you make a move go cold and claim that they didn't even realise they were leading you on and already have a bf (who is either an excuse or not giving her enough attention which leads to her seeking it from others). Definitely the type I would avoid, they just lead to frustration. They can be good flirting practice if you know you won't start falling for them, but other than that steer clear. I avoid overly flirtatious and forward girls like the plague.

[Mr. Saint]

I am a bit confused now. I never said that she did this to everyone; she does not really hang out with a lot of guy. She also told me that she did not have a boy friend.