You can become a virgin again?

[BarelyAVirgin]

I heard about that women can have their hymen sewn back together you get that feel of the first time again. too me it sounds interesting but dangerous. Anyone else have any idea about this?

[sera300]

If the hymen is gone after intercourse, most often it's gone long prior due to tampon use and active sports, there remains nothing to suture together since the tissue is gone & eroded.

Sorry, even if it's still partially intact after the act; it does not make one a virgin. And why would you consider this????

[smallestoftheclan]

Is this a confusion with having your cervix sewn shut during a pregnancy to prevent a miscarriage?

Does not make you a virgin, it's a medical procedure to help a woman carry a baby to term.

When I was young the rumor out was if you waited so long you were a virgin again.

[wet_suit_one]

what retarded horse patootie is this?

Once you've had sex, you're not a virgin. Period. It's not a physical thing (or else males could never be virgins right?), it's an act.

It's like being a murderer. Once you've murdered someone you're a murderer. You can't go back to not being a murderer by some magical incantation or an operation. Time travel might help you, but not necessarily.

Any disputes? Let me here about it.

Cheers!

[Mr. Saint]

I don’t know if I would us that analogy, comparing sex and murder, but you’re right. However, I have heard of this before, a plastic surgeon putting in a new hymen. The idea of virginity is purely an abstract concept made up by man. What is the difference between a virgin and a non-virgin? I really do not get what the big deal is with virginity.

[demonbuttercup]

That was on an episode of Nip/Tuck! yes I know ... not a reputable source...but you get the idea.
There was a girl who came to their office... she was from India, Bangladesh, a country like that. She had lived in the states for awhile....but was having to go back home b/c her parents had her in an arranged marriage. While in the states, she had lost her virginity, but could not go home like that, b/c she would disgrace her family if anyone found out. So she had that hymen reconstruction done... so on her wedding night, the guy would "think" she was still a virgin.
Outlandish...yes.... but some cultures are still like that.

[smallestoftheclan]

The difference between a virgin and a non virgin is intercourse. If you have had any type of intercourse, be it man and woman, man and man or woman and woman than you are not a virgin. I'm not talking kissing or what would be considered petting but intercourse.
The best definition of intercourse I could find was from the Mayo Clinic. It defined intercourse vaginal, oral or anal sex. Moreover, intercourse is not limited to opposite sex partners (heterosexual relationships) but also includes same sex partners (homosexual relationships).
After this you, male or female, are no longer a virgin. In some cultures I woman is expected to be a virgin on her wedding night. Proof of this is usually blood. The bride is expected to bleed, because of the tearing of the hymen. In some cases a woman, who is a virgin, yet did not bleed has been called names, beaten, disowned by her husband, and her own family and friends. The same that happens to a woman who did not bleed because she wasn't a virgin.
To some virginity holds more than for others. I know who I lost my virginity to. Some may say so and so was my first rather than say I lost my virginity to so and so, no difference. I know both men and women, mostly women who treasured their virginity. And some who while in an arranged marriage expected the woman, or bride to be a virgin. To be a man and not have the bloody sheet, sorry yet could think of nothing to change that to, is pitied. Poor so and so, can you believe that his bride was not a virgin. I've heard of women hiding some blood so that if they do not bleed they can use that. I think reconstucting a hymen is a bit far to go, and yes the pain must be something else.

[sera300]

Years ago in Greece; a newly wed couple had to hang their wedding night sheets out for public display to demonstrate she was a virgin. I wonder how many used food coloring?

A P put in the V=non-virgin. I love it when people say they never had sex yet have oral, etc. Sex= engaging in the act of a sexual relationship. Intercourse well we all can figure that one out is added upon the sexual relationship depth.