Male / Female Sexual Behavior--If I like certain things does this mean I'm Gay?

[dancingdoc2]

Asked another way, "if I like certain things and pursue them will this make me Gay"?

This is a question in either form that women and especially fellas occasionally wonder and worry about. One of several such concerns is whether having an interest in and then actually touching, fingering, rimming, or penetrating the anus means that we are or will become Gay. In addition, some women are concerned about performing and/or receiving oral stimulation of each others genitals, usually Fellacio in which she stimulates her man's penis using her mouth, lips and tongue often in conjunction with her hand(s).

Sex play and arousal, touching, kissing, and, caressing are human endeavors and activities and are not determined by or governed by the gender of the person we find ourself attracted to. In other words, our sexual orientation, meaning the gender(s) of the people we tend to find an attraction to are separate and apart from what a person likes, dislikes, or is willing to explore when it comes to being aroused and in arousing our partner. The same goes for viewing X-rated movies. Men and women are aroused by thoughts, sights, smells, and touch. What sorts of stimuli arouse you? As a guy, I can confirm that arousal happens from passing an attractive person on the street, seeing an alluring mannequin in a store, looking at a model in an ad/catalog, thinking about doing something randy, certain smells that remind me of past experiences, and so much more. How many women are turned on by romance novels and steamy scenes in a movie or an alluring billboard ad?

The anus outside and just inside is richly endowed with lots of sensitive nerve endings that bring pleasure whenever they are touched, yet they really turn on and become highly reactive after we become extremely aroused. These sensations contribute to and greatly intensify those that come from other caresses going on at the same time. These sensations also help trigger orgasms or an elusive climax, such as the second or third in a multiple string.

"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage
This is also an excellent tutorial for people interested in and concerned about the how-to of Anal stimulation as well as play.

As I write this I am trying to think of activities that are the exclusive province of homosexuality. Which of the following activities do you consider Gay, Lesbian, or Straight?

* (G L S) Fingering the inside of a vagina
* (G L S) Inserting a toy inside the vagina
* (G L S) Fingering the outside of the vaginal opening
* (G L S) Titillating the outside surface of the anus
* (G L S) Fingering the sphincter muscles just inside
* (G L S) Rubbing the clitoris
* (G L S) Gripping the shaft of a penis and stroking
* (G L S) Grazing the shaft with a lubricated and light touch
* (G L S) Titillating the glans
* (G L S) Massaging the prostate
* (G L S) Caressing and fingering the breast(s), nipples, and, areolas
* (G L S) Kissing the lips
* (G L S) Kissing and caressing the skin all over
* (G L S) Stroking the hair on the head
* (G L S) Fondling the scrotum and testicles
* (G L S) Fingering and massaging the labia majora and minora
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the labia
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the clitoris
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the penis
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the glans
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the scrotum
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the nipple and areola
* (G L S) Licking, lapping, sucking the fingers and/or toes
* (G L S) Rear Entry
* (G L S) Cowgirl
* (G L S) 69
* (G L S) Wheelbarrow
* (G L S) Bodyguard
* (G L S) Arch
* (G L S) Butterfly
* (G L S) Deep Stick
* (G L S) Sitting Bull
* (G L S) Spooning
(See Home Page for illustrations of each position)

Tally: ___G ___L ___S ___Proclivity

If you checked any of the items in the list then it seems to me that you have a prejudicial and myopic view of human sexual behavior. As important is that you do not have an understanding of sexual orientation.

http://dictionary.reference.com/brow...%20orientation
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_orientation

[Aaron1219]

Look...i i feel the same way idk...i jack off thinkin bout girls...but at times like to have a finger in my anas....but wehn i come to thinnk am i gay...i possibly dont think soo...i watched a porn wit a girl moaning(...its wat turns me on the most) and as soon as i was guna cum...i helt my penis head tight so it wouldnt still hard as can be went to a gay pornal wit men...as soon as i saw to 2 men...i wnet limp as can be lol!....i kno im not gay i jus like the feeling...nd would never think that twice

[xoxo_SexyAndFun_oxox]

what about girls? i'll be honest me and my boyfriend have watched porn together. he got hard but i got really wet. i like having sex with my bf but ive thought about having sex with another chick . and i get horny from other girls. idk if this is lesbian or normal.

[dancingdoc2]

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> i like having sex with my bf but ive thought about having sex with another chick . and i get horny from other girls. idk if this is lesbian or normal.

Your question has been answered in the article, above.

[Rouge]

I like them all, and I'm not gay, nor is my partner, and he enjoys them as well! (haha, Yay for me stating the obvious point of the thread :P)

As far as being interested in women, it doesn't mean you're a lesbian unless you exclusively are attracted to and seek women. I myself have been in a fff threesum, and am admittedly straight. Experimentation is always a little confusing.

[charles849]

My G/F had a fetish that consisted of licking my anus. we would initate this after a warm bath together .she said she could not do this with any of her previous relationships because the guys thought it was gay .I'm open minded about sex . I know we all have things we would like to do without being judge , plus having my rectum licked was a fetish of mine

[azgujj]

Im a staight guy, i like sometimes like my prostate being played with while my ex gf would go down on me...i know thats normal but...
there are times that i watch gay porn and watching 2 guys suck eachother off really turns me on...the thought have sucking another guy off makes me pretty horny...im not attracted to guys at all when i see them, i just think sucking a cock looks really fun to do sometimes..

[dancingdoc2]

> i just think sucking a cock looks really fun to do sometimes.

YUP! Think of it as the adult version of thumb sucking.

Lucky are the men who can stretch and bend sufficiently to service themselves.

[sixshooter]

Originally Posted by azgujj

Im a staight guy, i like sometimes like my prostate being played with while my ex gf would go down on me...i know thats normal but...
there are times that i watch gay porn and watching 2 guys suck eachother off really turns me on...the thought have sucking another guy off makes me pretty horny...im not attracted to guys at all when i see them, i just think sucking a cock looks really fun to do sometimes..

i have to agree with you.. i consider myself straight but seeing two guys sucking each other or having anal sex is abig turn on.. my wife knows this and sometimes while we are having sex i will tell her how i want to suck another guy and she gets really hot... so am i normal beats me...lol

[dancingdoc2]

Yes, Sixshooter, you are indeed "normal".

Next time, why not do some play acting by acting like that other guy. You might even dress different and/or adopt a different personality just for the "play".

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