safe anal sex

[obsessed]

I have been with the same women for 10+ years, we have both only been with each other. We love each other beyond control. We recently have been dignosed with gental herbies. Since we both have it do we need to worry about when to have sex? Do we need to use a condom? We are both in our 60's.

I want to try new things IE anal sex , but she has always worried that we can get HIV from anal sex. She occassionally loves me to lick her rectum and I used to be able to finger her rectum, but she won't let me inside her with my penis. How can I convince her It won't make her gay! and it is normal for stright folks to explore their lovers total body . Help me

[Brandye]

Why not take this down and simply look around. This has been addressed many times. Your questions do not track with the experience normally associated with someone wha has been sexually active for ten years.

[obsessed]

sorry these are the facts.

[oedipussy]

Let alone two people in their 60's... Why not admit that you're just a curious teenager?

First, it's called herpes, not herbies. And since you "both" already "have it", there's no need to worry about when to have sex or using condoms (unless you're worried about pregnancy at your "ages"). It's not like you can contract it again...

You don't get HIV from anal sex unless you do it with someone that already has HIV. And I fail to see how a woman having anal sex with a man would become gay - it's a heterosexual act. You and your lover can do whatever both of you are comfortable doing with each other.

[obsessed]

Thank you, we are in our sixties but not very worldly. We appreciate your input.

[LadyBug02]

I like it but the man better be very gentle or else I'll be in screaming pain.

[Ducy]

Wait...why is this a poll?

Oed I agree with the teen comment. I mean my grandpa is 60 and can barely use a computer, let alone sign up and post on forums and all that such lol