Omg I Need Help

[justaLUVR]

Ok so you have probably read about my problem because i post about it so much, if not check it out. I JUST tried to have sex with my girlfriend and of course, SAME #*$#(%& PROBLEM!!! i am seriously fed up with it and just want to give up on everything. Is 18 too young to take viagra! im serious, everytime i hear in a song or hear a reference to crude humor or sex, i want to jump off a cliff. WHAT THE HE^^ IS WRONG WITH ME

[demonbuttercup]

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I think some people are still confused about your whole situation. One minute you are talking about sex with your girlfriend... then the next post you are wondering where on the internet to find a quick "hook up".

The stress and pressue that comes from your post says alot about how this situation is freaking you out. Sex is mental as much as it is physical. If you are scared and nervous you wont perform.... 99% of the time... you will psyche yourself out and have a self fullfilling prophecy.

I know its easy to say... don't think about it and dont worry about it... but it could be the answer. I would suggest if you are really worried its a physical problem... go to the DR.. tell him/her what you've told us. Once they rule out any type of physical problem... if thats the case... then you can go from there. And dont be embarrassed either... us women endure going to the female DR once a year. Ive learned there isn't much a DR hasn't heard/seen before.

There is no way any of us can know what you feel or see whats inside your head.... we can only "assume" and you know what happens then...........
Like I said once before... maybe this conflict you have between either having a girlfriend or wanting to "hook up" is causing some sort of problem that you aren't even realizing.

[justaLUVR]

well i was wondering if it has something to do w/ my GF, so if i tried it with some1 i dont know, if it would work, i really cant get a solid erection anymore, it is too difficult to get on a condom because im too soft.

[sexy_angel]

i agree with the previous post....i think you are thinking about it too much. probably when you start fooling around with your gf your first thoughts go straight to 'i hope i'll manage this time...what if i dont...etc' if you're having these thoughts instead of concentrating on enjoying yourself and relaxing then there is no way in hell you're going to manage.

if you aren't thinking about these things and you are fully focused on the situation at hand ... i.e. you're enjoying it and thinking of nothing but pleasent thoughts then go see a doctor.

in my opinion it sounds like you just need to relax. it happens with girls too kind of....i mean if i'm like not in d mood or thinking of other things or worrying if its going to hurt or sthing it will end up hurting because obviously i won't be relaxed....its one giant loop....find your way out and things can improve.

good luck