sl*t???

[horndog]

i have been with my girl for a couple years and she swears she has never slept with anyone but me but i took her from someone who was 3 years older than her and i swear they slept together. not that i really care if she has been with anyone else but i just dont beleive it because she is very loose to me and i can slide in with no problem when she is wet enough. she is a little on the thick side though (5'5" 150ish) and i am somewhat skinny. i am 6 long and 5 around. someone tell me what they think cause we argue about this all the time. plus i think she may be cheating on me cuz our sex life has went to sh*t cuz i dont last that long. so with that i have a hard time getting her to have an orgasm.

[Luvs2plzU]

Hell, you are that worried about those things,just dump her...cuz you'll never trust her for the rest of your life !! What's the point of carrying all that baggage...because she "feels" loose, you have deduced she has slept around???...I think you'd do her a favour by taking the escape route from the relationship

[Brandye]

Sex does not loosen up the vagina. We start with genetics. After the hymen is gone, the changes result from chiildbirth or large changes in weight. Weight gains make us loose and great loss, tightens us a little. That little thing you think will have only temporary effect and twenty minutes later she will be her regular self.

Your chauvinistic attitude that you give her orgasms is what is getting in the way, not her sexual history.

I am with Luns: she is better off without you.

[pozzolane]

what is "sl*t"? This is just brutal. You should have posted "I'm a jerk".

Seriously, I'm so disgusted with this post I don't know what to say. You are the exact male specimen that gives the rest of us a bad name. You don't care if she's been with any other guys, but you fight with her about it and then post this garbage?

She needs to find someone better and you need to grow up!

[horndog]

now that i have been chewed out by sounding like an idiot i am going to try and back myself up. we dont always argue but we have talked about it once or twice and i said it is just hard to beleive because girls (that i know of) in high school that date older guys for a long time have slept with them. but by reading some article on this web page i have realized alot and i think i have just been paraniod cuz i wasnt loving her right in bed and being kinda selfish. but everything is alot better now that i have realized and read some things. so if a moderator wants to take this thread off then do so

[Brandye]

I hope the mods leave this up. Not to embarass you, you have learned a lesson or two, but to help others who are thinking the same way.

I respect your facing up to needing an adjustment. Welcome