Help With Erection!!!

[justaLUVR]

Im 18 years old and healthy, but ive gained about 30 pounds in the past year, mostly muscle, and im not taking ANY illegal drugs. Over the past few months, ive had trouble getting a solid erection and maintaing it. When i masturbate, it is only about 4 1/2 inches, and pretty soft, but i still get stimulation and orgasm. Sometimes i can get it fully hard and its 6 inches. When im with my girlfriend the same thing happens and i get nervous and cannot get the condom on it is so soft. WHAT CAN I DO!!! please help me, ive heard about squeezing the base of the penis, i really need help, thx

[The Joker]

I have a simular problem. What you have sounds like performance anxiety, pretty much just thinking about sex too much, like thinking about if you are doing it right, or if she is enjoying it. What you need to do it try to relax and not think so much. Make sex light, not deep thinking, laugh and enjoy it.

I dont suggest this, but when I first had this problem, I had to have sex once without a condom. After that I never delt with the softness. Its like breaking the ice. And now I use condoms everytime.

[Luvs2plzU]

Originally Posted by justaLUVR

Im 18 years old and healthy, but ive gained about 30 pounds in the past year, mostly muscle, and im not taking ANY illegal drugs. Over the past few months, ive had trouble getting a solid erection and maintaing it. When i masturbate, it is only about 4 1/2 inches, and pretty soft, but i still get stimulation and orgasm. Sometimes i can get it fully hard and its 6 inches. When im with my girlfriend the same thing happens and i get nervous and cannot get the condom on it is so soft. WHAT CAN I DO!!! please help me, ive heard about squeezing the base of the penis, i really need help, thx

My gosh...I hope you get this problem all sorted out before you get a REAL answer to :this is a weird subject but i feel it should be covered - i am a male and need some help. I am really interested in casual sex - NO strings attached. I do not know how to go about this, i dont want to lower myself to a prostitute. But i am very good looking, but pretty shy. Where would i meet people interesed in this thing? how do i approach women or where?!?! please help
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[bugs]

A past boyfriend of mine, had a similar problem,

I was patient with him, and we took it one step at a time and in no time, his problem was solved. He was worried how he would preform. Once he got over that he was fine.

I also gave him a few b jobs occasionally to keep him erect. It really turned him on.

[oberon]

You say... "I'm not taking ANY illegal drugs."... and that's great. BUT... are you taking any drugs? Prescription or over-the-counter? Something as simple as a sinus medication can interfer with getting or maintaining an erection.

And, incidentally, squeezing the base of the penis is to help control premature ejaculation. The method for maintaining an erection would be to use a cockring.