Inner labia sticks out

[virgin_suiside69]

my inner labia sticks out slightly past my outer labia. Is this wrong? Someone told me I was messed up and now Im affraid to be sexual. Please help.

-thanks

[dancingdoc2]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

In fact, in some cultures, it is a sign of beauty to have the Labia Minora protrude. In order to achieve such beauty, the labia are tugged upon by the child's parent.

Adult sex play can also elongate the Labia. The Labia are richly endowed with nerves that bestow pleasurable sensations when manipulated. Manipulate more and stretch the labia for even more intense pleasure.

Please, stop obsessing over the small things like how large your labia are. Think of the benefits. People come in all shapes, sizes, colors, hues, with slight variations to any one, possible. Boys obsess over their endowment; is it any wonder that a girl wouldn't also be concerned about being "normal"? Normal encompasses a wide range within which we can all comfortably fit. Who says with any authority that the Labia Minora must not protrude??

[Revirginated]

I don't know what girls do these days, but comparing labia wasn't a thing girls did when I was a kid. We didn't indulge in "circle jerks" or pissing contests to compare our organs like boys did. This subject didn't come up until I was in my 30's and then what I learned was mostly from men. Their awareness/interests regarding labia run the gamut. So, don't sweat it!

[Maribelle]

My self-esteem & body image in regards to my vulva changed dramatically for the better when I found this link:

• http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/fr_index.htm
  • Click "BODY IMAGE" on the left, then "THE VULVA REVEALED" on top....
  • Includes 20 webpages of real-life photos for educational purposes!
    • "The following guide to the vulva was originally presented on a website that no longer exists, but a copy of the guide was placed in The-Clitoris Yahoo Group in 2002; the group was deleted by Yahoo in April of 2005. It is reproduced here in its original format. Some may object to the use of the slang term "pussy" when referring to the vulva, but at times the message is more important than the means by which it is delivered. The classification and descriptions used are arbitrary and represent the opinion of the person who created the guide, that is don't take the text to be a statement fact. These photographs reveal the true diversity that exists in the appearance of vulvae. Every woman's vulva is unique. Viva la Vulva!"

[Brandye]

The "feminine ideal" is that the inner lips (labia menora) stay neatly out site until sexual arousal and then are exposed as the outer lips (labia majora) become engorged and everything opens up like a flower. OK. Not many of us meet that idea just as not many of us have perfect breasts or teeth or whatever.

Some women protrude all the time and most are uneven in their protrusion. In recent years there has been an entire plastic surgery industry spring up around labial "correction." You can even get a hymen replaced! In rare cases the labia are so grown that sex is nearly impossible and even other ordinary activities, such as sitting, become uncomfortable. In my years in practice I have never encountered a situation where surgery is indicated.

The photos maribelle has referred you to give a pretty good picture of the variations we women have. If you go to some of the sites for labial surgery you will encounter some examples that are truly grotesque.

Look around at some pictures of vulva and take Doc's advice.

[ORANGE]

virgin

don't worry,

quat"/my inner labia sticks out slightly past my outer labia"

one of my friend has the same physical situation too. i am not talking on behalf of all guys, but when i was with my friend i found her very beautiful.

As people comes in different size and shape and still are beautiful...

side note quate/suiside69

this caught my eye when i saw your name tag. hope everything is ok.

[splorff]

relax what you are describing is perfectly normal. In fact some men find it quite exciting. I do.

[Newtolove]

hm yea not a thing to fret about

[Brandye]

orange, splorff and newtolove,

What have you added here?

[Newtolove]

not much but me as a male won't be finding it strange so theres one male less to worry about you being weird