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Originally Posted by Hitman
I like most guys have the fantasy of wanting to be with two women at the same time. But more and more I find myself fantasizing about bringing another guy into the mix for my wife and try a MFM threesome. (with NO guy on guy interaction). I would any real life experiences in this area or just general advice.
If you were to try this would it be better for the other guy to be a friend or stranger?
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Can't give advise, but I'm in the same boat as you, want to do MFM with my wife. I've been with my wife for over 10yrs and even though she had the college sexual experience, she never had a threesome of any sort. A lover one time asked if she would doa threesome with him and his brother, but she didn't. but she did sleep with them seperately. I'm experienced with threesomes (both mfm & fmf). Did a swing club a couple of times with a previous girlfriend, enjoyed doing fmf, mfm, and group there. Enjoyed watching and knowing my ex-girlfriend was enjoying herself. We would come home and always have more fantastic sex afterwards. In my view, threesome is a side step from reality, a controlled buzz that you never get a-dick-ed to. that's right, A-DICK-ED. In straight, don't be a dick about it later. the reason for doing things like threesomes is enjoyment and/or fantasy fulfilment, not to compare and/or to turn relationships upside down. My first threesome, MFM, I enjoyed the first 10mins of it, then I was to ingrossed by her enjoying him, I lost my erection and couldn't get it back. So her and he had great fun and I was there. But even so, I did not discredit her or him about it, it was my mental hangup that held back my enjoyment. After dealing with that, next time was great. When we had the FMF, she got alittle jealous during everything and leave the room. I immediately stopped with the other woman and went into the other room with my girlfriend. She expressed that she was having a strange time watching me with her. After a few minutes of talking, her willingness to want to continue, and one on one foreplay; we went back into the room and had a great time. If the relationship is solid and communication has always been open, then No matter what, just enjoy it. When it's over, talk about it, laugh about it, get hot and have more great sex from it.
Maybe I will start my own thread?