threesome curious

[Hitman]

I like most guys have the fantasy of wanting to be with two women at the same time. But more and more I find myself fantasizing about bringing another guy into the mix for my wife and try a MFM threesome. (with NO guy on guy interaction). I would any real life experiences in this area or just general advice.

If you were to try this would it be better for the other guy to be a friend or stranger?

[Brandye]

In Married and Long Term Relationships is a thread on threesome experience. Read it.

[SCAR]

who ever it is be sure to get to know them before hand. make sure u are sure u want this it may prevoke some jelousy.
what does your partners opinion on the subject

[open to ideas]

you say that you are "bringing another guy into the mix for my wife." is that what she wants? she might be happy with you and if you are bored then talk to her about it (you might have already but it does not sound like it by this post). it is something that would have to be thought over very carefuly before attempting. i always say talk to your siginificant other before you talk to someone else. good luck with what ever you chose.

[xxxcowboy]

Originally Posted by Hitman

I like most guys have the fantasy of wanting to be with two women at the same time. But more and more I find myself fantasizing about bringing another guy into the mix for my wife and try a MFM threesome. (with NO guy on guy interaction). I would any real life experiences in this area or just general advice.

If you were to try this would it be better for the other guy to be a friend or stranger?

Can't give advise, but I'm in the same boat as you, want to do MFM with my wife. I've been with my wife for over 10yrs and even though she had the college sexual experience, she never had a threesome of any sort. A lover one time asked if she would doa threesome with him and his brother, but she didn't. but she did sleep with them seperately. I'm experienced with threesomes (both mfm & fmf). Did a swing club a couple of times with a previous girlfriend, enjoyed doing fmf, mfm, and group there. Enjoyed watching and knowing my ex-girlfriend was enjoying herself. We would come home and always have more fantastic sex afterwards. In my view, threesome is a side step from reality, a controlled buzz that you never get a-dick-ed to. that's right, A-DICK-ED. In straight, don't be a dick about it later. the reason for doing things like threesomes is enjoyment and/or fantasy fulfilment, not to compare and/or to turn relationships upside down. My first threesome, MFM, I enjoyed the first 10mins of it, then I was to ingrossed by her enjoying him, I lost my erection and couldn't get it back. So her and he had great fun and I was there. But even so, I did not discredit her or him about it, it was my mental hangup that held back my enjoyment. After dealing with that, next time was great. When we had the FMF, she got alittle jealous during everything and leave the room. I immediately stopped with the other woman and went into the other room with my girlfriend. She expressed that she was having a strange time watching me with her. After a few minutes of talking, her willingness to want to continue, and one on one foreplay; we went back into the room and had a great time. If the relationship is solid and communication has always been open, then No matter what, just enjoy it. When it's over, talk about it, laugh about it, get hot and have more great sex from it.
Maybe I will start my own thread?

[bren321]

im into having threesomes and as a girl talking i love it. read my thread in new relationships, under bad fantasies. since then i have a house to my self and me and two of my friends live here and we have a small groop of guys who hang around and play. those guys don't have sex together just with me or my friends not together.

[davox69]

Originally Posted by bren321

im into having threesomes and as a girl talking i love it. read my thread in new relationships, under bad fantasies. since then i have a house to my self and me and two of my friends live here and we have a small groop of guys who hang around and play. those guys don't have sex together just with me or my friends not together.

i have had 3 women at the same time it was my birthday i sent the day in my birthday suet nude

[dlb]

A threesome in a long term relationship. First you need to sort this out with your wife. Any time one of the people in a relationship is not completely sure about a 3some it is better to not do it. This is for couples who are secure in themselves as individuals, secure in their relationship, secure in their partners love and secure in their own sexuality.

If it is determined that you both have what it takes my suggestion is that you should not bring in a total stranger. OK, so you might feel uncomfortable doing this with someone in your usual social circle because there can some awkward feelings in the future. The Swinging Lifestyle is present in most non rural areas these days. Get in touch with your local community, attend some events where there are like minded individuals and where there is no pressure on anyone. You might discover someone who is not only willing to help you realize your fantasy, but is already experienced in this and can actually make it more enjoyable for both you and your wife.

One of the positive things that you can get from this sort of trio is that you can pick up some new moves and ideas by watching someone else with your partner.