female orgasm

[obviouslyurs]

Question:::

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm and I really want to give her one... I've tried a lot, I've fingered her and preformed oral on her... Can anyone help me and give me some tips or ideas? please reply to either my email or post a reply.. thank you
d. niklaus r.

[LadyOfLucidDepths]

its all in the clit.... well i found that.. cause i had never orgasmned before tyler.. and lol one day he just lol was touching down there at the same time.. and.. wow... i came a few times LAUGHS.. i loved it. but yea, when your having sex.. or whatever just.. rub it.. i guess? or yea..


jamie

[demonbuttercup]

did you read thru all of these??
oral techniques 101
gspot 101
fingering 101
these all should help

[archer]

have u fingered her long enough? gone down on her long enough? taken the time to build up the mood? have u looked at the sites as demonbuttercup has suggested?

try and talk more to her and i guess wat u could do is ask her to masturbate. maybe in htat way she can find out for herself wat she likes n then pass on the knowledge to u.

[obviouslyurs]

sorry but she doesn't masterbate at all I've already tried that... thank you all and please if you care to you can email me or IM me at obviously 666 16

[archer]

You could be a lil hard on yourself bout this...this takes time, *and sometimes u get lucky and u hit the right spot for her and this will do wonders. *keep on experiementing and spending more time with her, and down htere * .

are you just worried u arent giving her max pleasure, but she has no problem? or has she confronted you and said the sexual experiences she has had with you arent up to scratch? if its teh first, in my experience sometimes girls dont need to orgasm to feel that sex is fulfilling, they just love to spend time with you, and being with you in that way already makes them happy and an orgasm is just an extra bonus wen "spending precious time with you", but it doesnt mean you have to stop trying, it is bliss to know that u can make a girl orgasm and feel things.

good luck

[demonbuttercup]

well personally i don't think that if you can't/haven't ever given yourself an orgasm.. you shouldn't expect other people to know how too.
but archers right...don't give up hope and just keep trying
it takes time to figure out how to push the right buttons on different people.
especially since she doesn't masturbate then she doesn't even know her own buttons.
good luck

[obviouslyurs]

thank you all, you are all soooo good to me... i am grateful for your replies.. feel free to IM me at the SN at the bottom... thanks once again

[obviouslyurs]

thanks everyone... we had sex last night and it was great and i ate her out beforehand but nope nothing zip zilch nada... lol But i'll continue to try and try but nothing yet and if i do get her to orgasm ill let u all know... thanks again

[Play-Dough]

Hi ... im 18 and i've never experienced a orgasm.. i dont masturbate and find it hard to get into the mood. and i know that if things dont improve soon it could spoil and end my relationship with my boyfriend. ive never really enjoyed sex.. but i really want to i love my boyfriend and i want to us to have amazing sex. i spoke to my mum and she told me that i cant expect anyonelse to make me orgasm if i cant do it myself. today i went to my room and i got out my vibrator and i masturbated properly for the 1st time! it was an amazing experience i was half way through orgasming and got bloody cramp in my leg!! lol... but on a serious note i kno what i have to do now to pleasure myself. im now looking 4ward to teaching my man! .. one thing though.. i created alot of juices.. is this normal.. it felt like i needed a wee??