Penis Size 101

[kitty_robyn]

this is coming from a girl who has seen her fair share of penises-- length is attractive. it makes the girl think you've really got something, but it's really width that makes a difference for me. and if you're so lucky to have the combination of length and width that is in your favor, then go you.

size does matter.

but more important than size is that your partner is passionate and as into it as you. the biggest dick in the world won't make up for a lazy unattentive lover.

[kitty_robyn]

oh, one more thing-- straight or curved.

i dated a guy who had a curved penis (down and to the left). he was so obsessed with it being "Freakish" that he couldn't function sexually. Straight works well for me because it hits my orgasm spots best, but every woman is different.

[ShadowLynnParker]

When a woman says "SIZE DOES NOT MATTERT" she is right. It is the person that matters. If you are hot for someone then it will float the boat no matter what size. I am five feet three inches tall. You cannot possible think I would be looking for a man twelve lol. Well, if I was in love maybe. It depends on the man himself. If he is a three and I have the hots for him I will make it work. I guess you can say he will grow on me. lol

[Strangelove]

I'm a BIG believer in "its not the size its how you use it." The last guy I was with wasn't that big, but #### was he good.

Maybe it has something to do with her to. I heard that smaller women (which I am) aren't as deep as taller women. So, maybe if you're a smaller guy with a smaller girl it won't make that much of a difference. It sure didn't for me! :P

[moose_hd]

Originally Posted by HHH

I think males are genetically predisposed to want anything bigger. From the beginning of time, bigger club, bigger horse, bigger house, bigger bank account, bigger muscles. Bigger anything. It's just part of being male. As far as females are concerned it is my opinion that although they may not want or need a large penis, they a bigger penis to be more asthetically pleasing.

I'm quite certain this is a cultural thing as opposed to a genetic thing. In North America, at least, we are trained to want it by the media, movies, our peers, etc. I see this even moreso in areas where US culture is exported, such as when I visit my parents' country.

Only the smart guys actually end up deconstructing it and realise that "typical masculine culture" is pointless, sick and self-defeating, so we revolt against it and such.

This is just like the debates about body image: A lot of people think women are genetically programmed to want to look thin with long legs and perky breasts. In reality, it's been exposed that this is just the media and culture that causes these beliefs, and in reality it's not an inherent desire of women.

[Lackadaisical]

Considering the average woman only has feeling for about 3 inches (Unless I've been severely lied to, and I am a freak) size DOESN'T matter, unless it's really 'skinny'. That would be a problem for me. I noticed with my boyfriend that he's different sizes (when erect) different days. Depends on how aroused he is (obviously) and what kind of sexual act we're doing. He's almost always different...with up to a two and a half inch variance

[roni26]

I love a solid 6-7". Above8+ and I run out of the room screaming

[M1chae1]

I always thought I was just plain jane average, perhaps even a little smaller than average. And after doing a lot of research, I came to the conclusion that I'm actually above average in length, and average in girth. (6.9L X 5G). I suppose porn does have an effect on men. We see so many studly hung men screwing women blind, and the women going crazy. That does make some of us a tad insecure.

But really, even though I still wish my cock was a bit bigger, I know it has to do with how I touch her, kiss her, tease her, lick her, and **** her that matters. I think the conclusion we've all come to is that as long as you are not very small, or very large, you are golden (as long as you are a good lover).

I think there is a physcological visual skewing that takes place too. I look at my penis and think it's a little small--but by measuring, and by many lovers telling me I have a beautiful cock, I have to set aside my insecurity. Also there is the "forshortening effect." This is how men view their own penises--we see it from above, and it points slightly up to us...this "shortens" how it looks to us.

One more thing. You can not compare boob size to penis size. Totally different senarios and insecurities. Different all together. Don't go there.

Tip: use a cock-ring or hair-tie at the base of your cock to slightly increase girth, harden the tip (glands), and make your cock look...I don't know...hotter?

[ORANGE]

hi, new poster to this board.

i for one would wish mine would be bigger then average too. but i realize as i grow older your dick size does not make you the man. it is your ability to have a back bone that does.

all my life i have a really abornal size dick.always blaming it for my trouble. but after growing older and going through really tough time in my life. i realize that how i handle my life that matter and people that matter not my dick. my dick is my personal business and most people really do not care a rat ass about it unless they are trying to play mine game.

it funny i know people whoes really has a normal size dick and let the world step all over them.

god i know i was once one of them. life is not fare but i can now reconize my own weakness and pray to fix what i can and give god the rest.

[champloo]

i dont think having a curved penis is very different than a straight one, is it?

mines curves a little to the left. its i guess average size for these boards (about 6.5 in.) and like 5 in. in girth. im 14, and of course, with raging hormones beggining to rise and all, you cant help but think having a curved penis is uh....not a desireable trait. i dont know though, so could one of the ladies give a good opinion?