Okay, real simple question. If you were totally one hundred percent without a doubt gay.
Would you enjoy watching a woman masturbate?
And if you were totally one hundred percent without a doubt lesbian.
Would you enjoy watching a man masturbate?
And I am not talking about enjoying...I am talking about getting to the point where your coming from the other person masturbating?
Cuz I was just thinking back on past relationships, and I really dont believe my best friend is gay. I mean she use to love looking at and playing with my penis. There would be times when she would look like she was going to come from giving me a handjob.
And she could just stare and touch it for hours. Then (for anyone who remembers) She comes out and says she is gay always has been and that she thinks penis's look gross and never really liked playing with it.
Yet we continuosly had sex for about 6 months after and she would be dying to feel me inside her. (and after the one time we had sex without a condom she wanted to use a different contraceptive so she could feel it without a condom again since it felt even better)
Im just kinda curious cuz I really started believing but now I just am kinda realizing how absurd some of her reasons are.
well, i wouldnt like to watch another girl masturbate, boys yes please but not girls, that wud be GROSS!!
Just like it is rare for a person to be completely straight it is also rare for a person to be completely gay. I have a lesbian friend that I meet in freshman year. She had recently come out after being very sexual active with men. It seems that young people (such as my self) want absolutes when it comes to our sexuality. She clamed to being 100% gay, later she realized that she was sort of bi and was some what attracted to men as well. She now says she only sleeps with women because they are better in bed.
I know that nobody is one hundre percent straight. But this friend is so dead set on being gay. I mean we had sex a lot after she came out, and then suddenly she went cold turkey on me. I asked what changed and shes like well I am lesbian duh. Then when I said well you and I have known that everytime we have had sex for the last 6 months. And then she tried to tell me she didnt want me to be confused and have feelings for her.
(Secretly I think she stopped because she herself was getting confused) But hey. I guess its life. Everybody makes some nonsense now and again.
My point was merrily that later in life she may decide that she is bi. That is what happened to my friend. She was 18 when I meet her and she was sure she would never want another guy in her life. Now that she is 20 she has come to the conclusion that she just prefers women over men but she still is physically attracted to men. She also says that she is and never was emotionally attracted to me.
Dude that sucks...Im sorry saint.
Yea I pretty much got that a while ago. I was told that for like a year and a half she was lying to me about loving me. I think its a crock so she can sleep better thinking she really is gay...but hey to each their own. I gotta let her live and if she comes back she comes back.
But oh man was is it annoying that she has to label everything as either a gay or straight thing. Going to a gay club, going to a gay party, going to hang out with gay friends. going to straight night at the hookah...its like OMFG *puts gun to head out of annoyance*
Actually that was a type-o, it was suppose to be “men” not “me”. We were just friends, I meet her after she figured out she was gay.
O ok lol! I was like awww how sad!
I am sorry that happened to you though, that really sucks. She was the same way as your friend; everything was either gay or straight. Finally she came to the conclusion that sexuality is very complicated and that she was not going to put labels on thinks and just do what makes her happy.