I never really got to the point myself where I had an orgasm while masturbateing and throughout my last relationship with my ex boyfriend I knew that I never had an orgasm. I still continued expiermenting with myself.. but Doing it myself.. Doesn't seem to work. I have tryed different things as well.. Like as vibrators. I always get to the point and stop.. It feels too good I suppose and I just stop. I guess it's a factor of will power! I don't know.. but I have this new boyfriend.. and just with the tounge he can give me one. It was amazing..
How can I break the barryer with myself to where I can acchieve an orgasm while masturbateing myself?
Tue, 01/03/2006 - 07:21
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Orgasms...
There are many places with hints on female masturbation including this site. Once you have experienced an orgasm, however that happens, it enhances the likelihood that you can experience them other ways as well. Read various techniques and keep on practicing.
...and do not stop next time you take matters into your own hands!
Now that you know what an orgasm can feel like, you will no doubt agree that it is more pleasurable than the feeling just before you climax. So, keep on keeping on.
the only way i can actually know what is wrong from my studies over the years, is if u post pics of yourself
How much ruder could that get.. and what is that supposed to mean... Me post pictures of myself..
Perv.
omg i was jk, im just used to it cuz of another forum(not like this totally diff).I thought it would be funny. you dont have to get mad and take it the wrong way.
I personally Don't think it was funny.. I was completly serious! I can't make my own self orgasm but my boyfriend can make me orgasm in like 7secs flatt.
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Just to expand upon my previous (serious) post, I agree that you should continue the stimulation until reaching the trigger point of your orgasm. Sometimes when women are new to masturbation, they feel a need to pee and so stop. It is important to know that if this happens to you, particularly if the bladder is empty, that this is a false signal. The trick is to press on past this point and let the tension build. Don't stop, just keep stimulating yourself and repeating those movements and pressures that seem to work best and this should get you to your goal.
The types of stimulation and intensities are very different among the tongue, vibrator, and finger(s). That your boyfriends tongue brings on an orgasm most likely shows how soft your fingers have to be. The vibrator is a brute force way and I do not recommend using it that often and certainly not while you are attempting to learn how to masturbate and climax successfully.
My suggestion as a place to begin is to lubricate your fingers and finger your clitoris, shaft, and labia in ways that both feel good and raise your level of arousal. In addition, try to mimic the sensations you recall experiencing from his tongue.
Lastly, as mentioned, before--don't stop. When you are at the trigger point, your movements will most likely be very rapid and short. If you haven't reached this point, and of breathing quickly, you are not yet ready to climax. Just keep going.....
Give this a try and then please report back to us.