My boyfriend made me orgasm for the first time in my life a couple of weeks ago. Since then I've had two experiences of feeling really high after an orgasm. I think it's especially vaginal orgasms, not clitoral, that make me feel that way, or maybe it's both. My orgasms can last a couple of minutes, which seems like ages (and I always feel so dehydrated after!)
Is it normal to feel high? What I mean by high is euphoria. I have no pain and nothing outside our relationship is important. I lose sight of almost everything else, when normally I'm a bit of a worrier. I sing involuntarily! I have sung semi-professionally in the past but the only time when I sing like that is the few times I've been stoned. I literally can't stop myself. And my body goes floppy and I can't really move, but that might just be exhaustion. I felt like I could burst with happiness too, but that might be falling in love.
It's the euphoric singing thing, I want to know, do other people have that? Maybe not with singing, but some other natural expression of utter happiness?
Yes, do enjoy! You are discovering one of the true beauties of female sexual response. Though orgasms do not always lead to these highs, we can, and sometimes do have truly transcendant experiences. In all my years of sex, there have been three truly transcendant experiences and several of a lesser, but still great, transformation.
Two new lovers each experiencing similar is unusual and likely indicates the newness and excitement of early love, Hold onto whatever it is.
Oh and he just texted me saying he's feeling like that too. Is this high thing a common experience? I've heard a lot about sex but I've never heard about feeling high like this before.
I can't think! My brain is mushy.
Dear PinkCoconut,
Congratulations! Allthough not everyone experiences this, you're certainly not alone. I feel the same way and it's wonderful! I'll feel like I'm floating across the stars! :) And vaginal orgasms seem more powerful to me as well. Also when having intercourse I feel very connected to my bf; as if I can feel his energy swirling through me. All is love and I can even feel connected to the universe itself! I guess it's the same hippies experience through using drugs :rolleyes:
And after the feeling of being "high" subsides, the world is clear as crystal and the answers to all my worries suddenly seem so simple :)
I'm still high though! It's been over four hours since I went home away from him.
I feel like I deserve this happiness though, work has come first for most of my life and now I'm liberated.
Enjoy the feeling! :)
This euphoria, feeling high, is very much a desired result of making love. I wrote in my journal 37 years ago, after spending one of our first long weekends together with my future wife, "I'm a melted blob of mush, a puddle of love!" We moved in together a month later and were married a year later. We were married for 33 years, until her death, and we both carried those feeling of euphoria all those years. We somehow figured out that the high we both felt was, in fact, LOVE, and it especially manifested while making love. All during our marriage, we were able to experience simultaneous orgasms, which seemed to continuously bring back that giddy joyousness. Enjoy yourselves!!
Michael
I have experianced the same as well, but more like brandye did. It is not common but when it comes its perhaps the most wonderfull experiance I have ever felt. I had an experiance like this when 14. I was with my first Girl for the first time, I knew that girl from before kindergarden. The sex that day was compleatly unexpected, it was an incredible moment of spontinaity. That ended in one of the greatest experiances of my life