what is the best way to tell if a girl is having an orgasm and not faking it. sometimes i know for sure cuz her whole body tightens up(i.e legs and arm) but then the other day that didnt happen at all but she was extremely wet and said she had a couple small orgasms but she didnt tighten up. probably because i had to stop for a second so i wouldnt cum. but i was just wonderin if there was a sure way to tell besides giving her a big orgasm. i have heard some people say no matter how good of an orgasm the vagina still tightens and thats how :confused:
Mon, 08/20/2007 - 05:41
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Orgasm - is she faking it???
Horndog,
The sad reality is that most girls have faked orgasms during vaginal intercourse. Some fake it all the time, some fake it only some of the time.
They fake it to please you. They fake it because they think normal girls should orgasm during vaginal penetration, and they don't want to feel abnormal. They fake it because they have reached the height of ecstasy with you without an orgasm and there is no place else to go. They fake it because you are irritating them and they want you to stop already. They fake it to turn you on. They fake it so you will believe that you are The Man. They fake it because they think they are supposed to come when you do. They fake it because they love you. They fake it because they just realized they can't stand you. They fake it so you will know that they are "a real woman."
So how can you tell if it's real? Just like a guy, a girl has muscle spasms when she comes. Her muscle spasms can be felt in her vagina, where the walls pulse rythmically, just like your cock. The first spasms are strong, and then they fade in intensity until they stop altogether. You probably won't feel her orgasm unless you have your fingers inside her.
And guess what? She can fake that too!
> i was just wonderin if there was a sure way to tell besides giving her a big orgasm.
Encourage her to inform you in some way either by verbal or non-verbal communications. It is better than you wondering or asking the age old question of "did you cum, yet"?
The female orgasm is much more internalized than the males, so it is not always obvious.
You men will never really know. That is her issue, not yours.
Just trust her, the response to orgasms can always be different.
If you think she hasn't had a proper orgasm yet, then do something you think will give her one.
If she is 'faking' and orgasm then she is most likely only doing it to please you.
[QUOTE=BTDTWoman;191072]Horndog,
The sad reality is that most girls have faked orgasms during vaginal intercourse. Some fake it all the time, some fake it only some of the time.
They fake it to please you. They fake it because they think normal girls should orgasm during vaginal penetration, and they don't want to feel abnormal. They fake it because they have reached the height of ecstasy with you without an orgasm and there is no place else to go. They fake it because you are irritating them and they want you to stop already. They fake it to turn you on. They fake it so you will believe that you are The Man. They fake it because they think they are supposed to come when you do. They fake it because they love you. They fake it because they just realized they can't stand you. They fake it so you will know that they are "a real woman.
i like ur answer because its true for some women.....i have never faked an orgasim i think there's no point in it...sex is surpose to pleasure both partners
and if she wanted to just pleasure u she would give u head....... so i think that a fake orgasim can be picked out straight away......if things are
different to wat they usually are...
If fake orgasms are so easy to tell, why do so many men post questions about it? Ever see "When Harry Met Sally?"