Ok my g/f and i have been having sex for about a year or so now. While the sex is good, decently long lasting and all she never seems to come close to getting off. During foreplay i attempt but then she just tells me to have sex with her. I bought her a vibrator but she tells me she can't stimulate herself or get wet enough to use it although she likes it when i use it on her. Is there any bits of advice i could get whether it be pre-sex, during sex, post sex even?
Tue, 12/07/2004 - 06:50
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Orgasm question?
Have you tried asking her to stimulate her clit during sex? If not... you might want to suggest it.
Talk to her, ask her what turns her on... Communication is very important!
Be creative, surprize her!
Perhaps you could try being more agressive. Talk dirty to her... try different positions. Ask her what she likes best, and honor that.
Also, when you have sex with her, try to do it in a way that stimulates her clit... be close, very close.
You must also consider that she might be shy about exploring her own body. Ask her if she can make herself cum when she masterbates. If so, ask her how she does it.
Communicate with her, and make she feels comfortable talking about these issues with you. Reassure her. She may just need to relax.
Hope this helps!
Kathleen