I'm a virgin and recently I tried masturbating inside using a dildo that doubles as a vibrator. It didn't hurt or anything to insert it, but I couldn't really find the g-spot I keep reading about. I couldn't really feel any stimulation to bring me to orgasm and I tried a while. I've tried fingering to see if I could find it and I still couldn't. Could someone please tell me about where I should be trying to feel and what it feels like? Do you think this means I may not orgasm when I actually do have sex with a partner? Or am I just worried about nothing? Is it true that a lot of women don't orgasm just from sexual intercourse because I've always thought that sex always made you orgasm.
Sat, 12/16/2006 - 06:42
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orgasm from dildos
It is true. Or mostly women dont orgasm from just penetration.. they need other stimulation.
Like myself, I need clit stimulation along w/ the penetration.
Try using it more on your clit.
The vibrations inside my vagina never did anything for me either.
Demon is correct. I believe the percent is about 80 % that don't feel anything from just penetration, sorry to blow the idea sex out of the water, but the porno films got it wrong.... :(
You can try things like Clit Vibrators, or Mico Vibs, they will stimulate the clit and make you orgasm. When it comes to my partner the best thing is micro vib stuck on her clit and turned up to about 75 % power, if it is on too much it wouldnt do much at all either, kinda like the three bears, you have to find the power level that is just right for you...
First off a dildo has no vibrator so it can't double as one it is a vibrator. Just an FYI.
Second true 80% of woman need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Plus it takes the average woman 20 minutes to have her first orgasm. Yuck.
Don't feel bad you couldn't find your G spot most woman can't and most never have a g spot orgasm. Reason your g spot is located 2 to 3 inches in and curved up. If you want to have a g spot orgasm try a g spot vibe. They are shaped to find the spot. Also keep in mind this takes time to master so don't feel bad if you have to work at it.
Good Luck! Oh and don't worry sex will be great when the time is right for you.