i meant when a lass cums yea is that the orgasm. i didn;t mean just coz she wet lol.

women dont "cum" like men do in the sense that they squirt everytime they orgasm.
Now there are some women who are able to have a female ejaculation but that is a very small percentage of the population. The majority of us just have orgasms that dont result in us spurting out something. I also feel a little wetter after I have orgasmed but I have never had a female ejaculation.

I'm trying to figure that out, too!

I think he wants to know if a woman cums, does that mean she's having an orgasm?

I definitely know that I get more wet when I have an orgasm.  But I also get wet during stimulation without having an orgasm.  For myself, I consider that, I guess, a sort of cum.

Just because your girl is getting wet, doesn't mean she's having an orgasm.  She should be able to tell you if she's having an orgasm.

I don't know if that helps at all...

Danny,

I have no idea what your question is.

hey people there sumit i would like to no. im kinda new to this whole sex thing yeah well not that new but i've onli just got in to wantin the females havin the same pleasure as me.

about the orgasm thing. may i ask coz im not sure. when a female cums is that and orgasm or no.

She i pay extra time but doing a bit of foreplay then we we r heated i go in and pump her and i won't stop till i no she has cum.

is a female cum and orgasm or no.

I would see a doctor and make sure the pain it isn't something physical.  Other wise try to relax.  Are you comfortable with your partner? Trust me you will know when you have an orgasim!

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Trust me when i say that you will know when you've had an orgasm. There is nothing else like it. It can't be mistaken for anything else. You'll just know. It's a wonderful relief and hard to describe.

Brandye is right in that you'll have to have an orgasm by yourself and learn how your body responds. Upon doing that you'll have more success with a partner.

The pain could be simply lack of lubrication. Easily solved. It could be tension on your part. You will rapidly get to the point where you are expecting the wrong things and they will become self-fulfilling prophesy.

Learn to masturbate. Try a vibrator. You have to teach yourself what an orgasm feels like. If you know what pleasantness you are seeking with him, you will be more relaxed and ready to experience orgasm with him.

There is a clear and close relationship between how young we start to masturbate and our satisfaction with sex later in life. Time to learn.