I read in a previous post that a guy made his girlfriend cum but not orgasim. I thought that cumming was an orgasim for a girl. obviously you can have an orgasim and not cum and vice versa. Someone explain please!!!! I am a girl so it confused me. Thanks!!! 
Sat, 09/03/2005 - 15:02
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orgasim???
I dunno?
From what Ive read on here.. for those women who ARE able to ejaculate say that it happens w/ a very INTENSE orgasm.. usually from the Gspot.
That ejaculatory orgasms for women are much more intense than regular ones.. but that is just what Ive read.
I myself dont have personal experience in the matter.
this topic is interesting to me because my current gf cums quite frequently and sometimes orgasms.
She cums quite easily and ejaculates at the same time and this can happen repeatedly over and over, but its not an orgasm.
and their are times where she won't cum and instead it will lead to this huge orgasm which she explains as like ten lots of cumming all at once.
so in my experience their have been times where shes has cum but not orgasmed, times where she has done both, and times she has not cummed but has orgasmed.
This is all what she has told me and its easy to see the difference between cumming and orgasming. ones a much shorter experience and the other a longer more powerful feeling.
i just thawt id let u's no my situation regarding the dilema.
cool
glad I could clarify it a little :P
that is exactly what i thought. when you orgasm u cum not necessarily ejaculate. it just confused me how he said it. i relayed it to my bf how confused i was and he said i thought you knew that!!! i was like me too but not anymore, but thatnks for clearing that up for me:) i feel better.
Bah, this has always been a huge debate and whether both are one in the same.
I dont know the post you are referring to.
I think its more like you can orgasm and not come... but not vice versa.
For the most part... the majority of women who indeed are able to orgasm.. just orgasm. Then of those women, there is a small percentage that are sometimes able to ejaculate when they orgasm. This has been asked... is it a myth? is it true? Ive read several posts about it.. saying they could especially when the G=spot was involved (another mythical subject we wont get into right now lol)
Anyways, if people are going to talk about this subject... they should be more specific and say "ejaculate" not just cumming. I know when I am about to orgasm (I've never ejaculated) I say, "Im cumming" or "Im about to cum" or come?!?
guess it also depends on how you spell it lol
So for me orgasm and cumming (coming) are the same thing... ejaculation is a whole other topic.
Hope this helps.