ive had a problem, i am sexually active and have been for the past 4 years. ive been with my bf 4 a year now and even though i really enjoy sex i dont no if im orgasiming, im cumming but is it an orgasim? i spoke 2 1 of my friends who told me that u feel like u need 2 pee when ur about 2 orgasim and not 2 hold bak when u get that feeling. so i tried it i let go, the only problem being that i peed all over him! how do i no if i am orgasiming???