well i love giving it to my ex when we were together, i really really enjoy it, but it's not wrong to not give it to any girl... err... women until she get's checked out right? i mean i'm not in a relationship, and not talking to any females right now since i just broke up, but for future referance, since i love giving it, and enjoy the look of pleasure on their face and how their body moves.
Sat, 09/22/2007 - 11:11
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oral on women
> it's not wrong to not give it to any girl... err... women until she get's checked out right?
This can be a difficult situation. Do I take her word for her being OK medically, or, do I play it extra safe and sure and we both go get checked out and show each other our results.
Back when I was dating, I just took the woman's word because I new her character and behavior. I realize that this is not always possible or a good thing these days, particularly with casual sex or FWB.
yea so basically unless you knew more about the woman, and yourself, oral should be a cautious thing. I know i had protected sex, but unprotected twice and also got checked out, and.... everything good lol but even though i'll be willing to get checked out again
[quote=noodle209;193955]yea so basically unless you knew more about the woman, and yourself, oral should be a cautious thing. I know i had protected sex, but unprotected twice and also got checked out, and.... everything good lol but even though i'll be willing to get checked out again[/quote]With the diseases present today, I would use caution if you doubt her background. There is nothing like "exchanging" mutual scripts demonstrating the testing performed and the results. As a precaution, if I end a relationship I make it a point to have a full checkup to ensure all is well. Thus, if the opportunity arises to be involved with someone, I have no doubt of my lack of diseases and it does not need to be "hurry up & get it done".
This depends upon the circle you hang out with and the sort of women you go for. With the exception of herpes, oral transmission of STDs is low (according to the NIH and CDC) if you have good dental health. In you age group, young based upon your language skills, I'd recommnd getting tested and showing results.
[quote=dancingdoc2;193944]I realize that this is not always possible or a good thing these days, particularly with casual sex or FWB.[/quote] I have the utmost trust in those FWB which I keep company with. And the same holds true w/them trusting me. Much has to do with an individuals character and values. I trust my FWB more then the majority of men I date since there is no agenda on their behalf; we are good friends and always look after the others best interests no matter what the issue is.