I have been having sex with my partner for about two years now on and off. Whenever we have sex she does not orgasm but I can make her orgasm by going down on her. Why is that? When having sex there have been times when I have not been able to finish and other times when I have committed something along the lines of, "this is going to be great, wasn't it?" So is my swerve off or am I missing something?
Why can she only orgasm when I go down on her?
Most women can't orgasm from penetration alone... they need clitoral stimulation.. I am one of these. Most sex positions don't offer much clit stimulation...Unless you or her massage the clit area during sex. I have to do this w/ my fingers or a vibe.
W/ oral... my b/f can tongue the clit and finger me at the same time... and I can cum in no time!!! w/ intercourse.. it usually takes me awhile.
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Masta Shake!!! lol
I had been thinking of something to try recently and you just gave me some hope. I will be seeing my partner again in a couple of weeks and I was thinking that it would be fun and possibly rewarding to try a rear entry position (http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_rearentry.shtml) so that I could wrap one or two hands around to her front to stimulate her clit. Any feedback or other suggestions about that?
Thank you by the way...master shake is the man :)
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Demonbuttercup has given you the condensed version of my long winded reply:
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Humping
Additional insight:
Female Sexual Response
I hope we have been helpful. Got questions?
Butterfly
My fave is a variation of the above. The height of my bed has the man standing but the girl in the same position. This always allows room for me or him to stimulate my clit. I sometimes have my legs on his shoulders... but usually knees up closer to my chest is more comfy to me.
elcup,
This is addressed so many times. Follow Doc's link and read around. You may learn something simply by seeking.
Yikes, sorry did not mean to offend...computers are a bit confusing for me and I apologize for a lack of proficiency.