I am sorry but I I can't stop laughing (partially because Gizelle was so horny she had a rough love affair with the leg of a desk in her dorm and I witnessed it) and because I gotta know. How the hell would the hymen move up from the vagina to her mouth? Also that is reminisent of what the Greek thought hysteria was, hyster is Greek for uterus as in hysterectomy and other medical procedures, the Greek used to think that a woman would become hysterical because her uterus would move rapidly around her body, from her torso to her foot then her brain and then finally traveling to each of the limbs and repeat the cycle until she stopped being hysterical. There, a little bit of history on Greek uterine theories to spice up your day, the Latin word was lunatic, luna being moon because they thought that in the full moon people would become insane and become lunatics. Also, Brandye now most people as in teens and a handfull of adults will be found using the suggestive phrase «a éprouvé sans l'expérience» (experienced without experience)

The French have a very useful term: "demi-virge." It refers to a woman who is quite sexually experienced but has never had a penis in her vagina. Technically we are virgins until we take a penis into our vagina passing the "barrier" of the hymen (which is usually a non-issue).

So, sure, we can do blow jobs and remain virgin but we have lost some of the innocence that is implied by being virgin.

The question, alone, about Spanish Fly gives me the creeps. Oberon has given you the strainght scoop on it. The so-called date rape drugs that have become so popular in the last decade only turn the woman into a zombie. They are dangerous and do not arouse her; they reduce her to a near unconscious state. They are illegal and can bring long jail sentences when they are detected.

Do not look for shortcuts through chemistry. There are none. While alcohol may reduce inhibitions it also reduces sexual response.

nah i dont think if u do oral/get oral then ur not a virgin. i think sex is about penetration to the vagina only to be honest. oral sex is slightly different...no hymen is breaking.

You could look at it as each experience (manaul, oral, penetration (vaginal AND anal) is a virgin experience.  

As to "popping the cherrry"... I believe, that technically refers to the breaking of the hymen (a thin flap of skin at the opening of the vagina, if you don't know).  However, that isn't always accomplished with sex.  It can be done through physical activies... like sports or horseback riding... and many girls break the hymen by using tampons.  

As to "Spanish fly"... yes and NO.... basically what it does is irritate the urethra (so you DO get a sensation of arousal) BUT it's dangerous to do since it can damage the urethra. Check out:  Spanish Fly

The very best aphrodisiac is real sexual interest in your partner... the others don't really work.

It depends on who you ask.
*I* don't think having oral sex defines losing your virginity. I don't think you can do that till you have penetration. However, some people believe that when you engage in any type of sex, it means you are no longer a virgin.

And the second one also depends on who you ask.
Some people say no, some people say yes.

[QUOTE=Quote (MasterBater101 @ Oct. 20 2005,21:47)]most people as in teens and a handfull of adults will be found using the suggestive phrase «a éprouvé sans l'expérience» (experienced without experience) [/QUOTE]
that's gr8!!! will start using that!