I really wanna go down on my girl because I love it, but the smell is too much sometimes. And she noticed already. Some people recommended to tell her to shower first. But how can I say it so she doesn't get offended.
What other options do I have? I really wanna do it.
Sun, 11/18/2007 - 06:28
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Oral sex: taste and smell II
Ket her know yuo enjoy it, she has noticed the scent, and suggest a shower before or at least a wash up. Do it together...less obvious.
Just say baby I love going down on you, and I want to do it more, but sometimes the small is overwhelming and I can't do it as long as I would like. So let me shower with you and get you clean before hand....suggest even playing in the shower together....
What I mean by "she noticed" is that she noticed that i was uncomfortable because of the smell, which made her feel uncomfortable too.
Next time she is in the shower...jump in with her...dont say hey lets get in the shower together...just surprise her (dont scare her lol) then go ahead and do it then do it once more when you get out. that way afterwards you can mention that you really enjoyed going down on her. If it doesnt help "persuade" her that she should maybe clean a bit more...then tell her straight up.
Yea if she's wanting to get frisky.. you say that you need to get a shower... that you feel stinky...and then bring her along.
I mean if I noticed my guy was "hesitant" down there... that would be my queue to freshen up the next time he comes over.
If even fresh out of the shower... the smell is unbearable... then she should see her DR for a check up.
Some days are like that. You can lie around naked or otherwise exposed to "air it out" a bit - kinky enough. Or you two can get steamy in the shower - try cunnilingus in the shower - that's a trip! A bit of play in the bathtub perhaps? Mmmm the hot tub comes to mind - there's lots you can do with one of them.
[FONT="Verdana">[SIZE="2">You just need to reinforce that you like her being clean. DO NOT tell her that she smells "overwhelming" sometimes - that will just make her not want to get intimate with you and feel very self conscious for a LONG time. The next time you start to get frisky, tell her that you want to bathe her. Take her by the hand and lead her to the shower. Take your time washing her every part and then ask her to wash you. Lead her to the bed, drop your towels and give her some oral.
When you are going down on her, tell her how great she tastes and smells, how clean everything is, and how much you love it. After you are finished with your sexual encounter, you can go over what you did and how much you enjoyed it and make sure to say again that she tasted and smelled so wonderful right out of the shower.
All she needs is reinforcement that cleaning beforehand is good. Please do not tell her that her scent is overwhelming, it will just cause issues for her. Reinforcing the good stuff instead of talking about the bad will make her want to do it more because it pleases you more. The more pleased you are, the more comfortable she will feel and the more she will clean beforehand.[/SIZE][/FONT]
Well in my opinon, as long as the smell isn't completely rancid and foul not to worrry then. Some smell is normal and nothing to worry about, but being a girl, I feel awkward sometimes too..even when my bf has no problem with anything. It took me awhile to feel confident enough in myself to let him do it, cause I was always worried about it...but then I realized that he didn't mind, and let go of my fear, and now its great =)