I was wondering if any other women out there simply can't orgasm from oral sex like me so far? I've tried several times in different positions and it just doesn't happen. Sometimes I feel close but it's not ever enough stimulation to get me over the top so i can orgasm. With that inmind, I should mention that I was never able to make myself orgasm through rubbing my clit with my hand so I bought a vibrator as a last resort because i was getting no where and it works every time. Maybe I just need a lot of stimulation to orgasm. I don't know. Could this be the reason I'm having so much trouble reaching orgasm with oral sex? Do any other women have this problem because I feel like there's something wrong with me or something? It makes me wonder if intercourse is going to be any different. Any input I'd greatly appreciate because this has been bothering me for a long time.
Mon, 07/09/2007 - 04:03
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oral sex questions
i havent been able to orgasm at all, alone or with a partner :confused: oral sex doesnt really feel all that good for me, in fact, touching my clit in general does not feel good at all. (although i have not tried a vibrator)
i only feel pleasure from penetration but i don't orgasm from it...i know they say that penetration does not please a woman, you need to focus on clitoral stimulation etc...this is not true for me i guess :(
well some girls do require a lot of clitoral stimulation. and some girls do not. My ex required a lot of stimulation, but my current gf requires only a gentle touch to get her their. perhaps you are just putting too much stress on trying to finish. try relaxing when someone is giving you oral. focus on the sensations around you. the feel of their tongue, the touch of their hands and your legs..etc. that could help. I know it helped me when my gf first started to go down on me.
One-quarter of all women never reach orgasm, so you are in the lucky three-quarters who can and do. Half of us (I am in this group) require some form of digital or oral stimulation.
You have crossed the biggest barrier and now you will learn how to get there with a competent oral partner. I, too, had the same difficulty until another woman turned me inside out. Wow. That transferred and competent men can help me get there.
Oral has never given me an orgasm. Neither has sex. Oral feels good, but theres no way he can move his tongue fast enough or long enough for me to orgasm. I'm one of the lucky girls whose guy is willing to finger me for as long as it takes, even after he has finished.
Thanks for all your replys. It makes me feel a little better knowing Im not alone. Anyone else is welcome to reply. Maybe it might happen for me one day. I have a question also for Brandeye...So if you needed something digital at first too to get you to orgasm, what did that women do differently that others didn't? Did it take long for you to orgasm from oral when it finally happened for you?
Please read the following Sticky Post:
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
The first section agrees with and confirms what Brandye stated, above.
Next, near the end, read about "one of my favorite oral techniques".
I hope this is of help.
I can sometimes orgasm from oral (tongue on clit) the TRICK is to have him finger you while tonguing your clit.
The position to do this in is...girl on back... guy lays sideways to you... or best he gets on all 4s, bends down between your legs... one of your legs can be over his back. He leans down proping himself on say his right elbow.... and fingers you w/ that hand while the other hand sort of parts the lips for easier clit action.
If you are getting good fingering and tongue action... you can cum in just a few minutes!
i have a question i tryed to give oral to a girl but it didnt seem to work is it that my tongue isnt strong enoph or was she just really tight?
Have you tried getting on top, position your clit on your partners mouth where if feels good, also trying moving in a circular motions on there face and rub soft of hard. On back and forth.
[QUOTE=RCNV;189255]Have you tried getting on top, position your clit on your partners mouth where if feels good, also trying moving in a circular motions on there face and rub soft of hard. On back and forth.[/QUOTE]
yeah... accept that one wasnt about my partner it was a chick that i like to well play around with i just got a girl friend and so i just wanted to pelease her as much as i could the first time so thanx... btw strip poker is fun once there naked be like wanna do it for more ;) LOL worked for me (im a god at poker tho)
i am most sad that i am not able to climax from oral sex either. i have never been able to :(
i have only had 2 sexual partners, and both have taken great pleasure in going down on me, and it has all felt really nice and it has been enjoyable, just no orgasm.
i don't feel much when using a standard vibrator, mobile phone, electric toothbrush either - they just seem to weak to make any difference. i do orgasm normally from manual stimulation and, my favourite, a professional hand-held muscle massager!