Ok
So, about a week ago, I finally "ate out" my girlfriend
She hasn't given me oral yet, we haven't seen eachother in private since then.
But my problem is...
I really need advice
XD I mean
I know what I'm doing, but, I kinda lack experience.
And when you're giving oral, it's definitely a lot harder to tell exactly what you're doing
Like, I'm not sure if I actually found her clit or not, etc.
After about 20 minutes, she lifted my head up, etc
But she wasn't really moaning or anything, and I know that some girls just don't, and thats fine.
But I'm just worried if this is all good or what...?
Mon, 04/02/2007 - 00:49
#1
Oral Sex, help!
Just look up a vaginal diagram and some oral technices and you will do just fine in your relationship
As stated below look at the diagram, and watch her while you are going it to see if she is more responsive to certain areas. What feels good to one person varies with the other. Really you cannot go wrong!
If she lifted your head she probably had an orgasm, not everyone is vocal and especially if it's a new experience many tend to be shy. As her what she liked and what felt good. Talk to her!
OK the problem ain't that I don't know WHERE her clit is...I mean
I've seen diagrams, know where things are, etc
I just couldn't really find it, and it's a lot harder when everythings slimy (spit)
All i can say is there is skin hidding the head of her clit!!! try lightly pushing her vagina walls(labia) upwards toward her stomach and then you might be able to see it better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is a typical male thing to go on an adventure and not stop to get directions when lost. I agree, look at an illustration in order to become familiar with both the "landscape" and the path you intend to take.
One way to find the "destination" is to trace along one of the labia up to the junction of the two. The clitoris is right there below the juncture.
Now, for a pet peeve:
> > look up a vaginal diagram
The "vagina" is the organ into which the penis is inserted. The "VULVA" refers to the entire genital area and it's pieces-parts. Let's get it right.