> I'm trying to make my partner stay longer down there.

Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controlling Premature Ejaculation

> He stays down there for a minute if I'm lucky. But when I give him oral sex I make sure he's fully satisfied.

It is important to understand that relationships are partnerships and this includes the romantic aspects. Making love is not what we do to each other, it is what we do with and for each other. This may be a concept he has yet to learn. I suggest talking to each other about this as well as any other matters of concern. In addition, provide verbal or non-verbal feedback on how each of you is responding to caresses and for what you need now/next.

How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

> Is there anyway to make eating the vagina enjoyable? Lot of people find the smell of the vagina odd. I don't think mine is but he said vagina smells funny. He never ate the vagina before until he started doing it to me; which is ever so often. Point is, is there really an explanation on how to eat a vagina?

Vagina or Vulva or both?

A tongue can stimulate the vaginal opening and perhaps penetrate just inside so there is much to do with the former an not much to do with the latter. On the other hand, a finger can be inserted to finger the vaginal vault and removed to lick the vaginal mucus for great effect.

A tongue can stimulate the vulva (labia majoria, minora, clitoral shaft, vaginal opening, and the rest of the area) from licking, lapping, sucking, kissing.

With any and all of the above techniques, my suggestion is to wait until you have become very highly aroused from other caresses, first.

Pleasing her orally for the first time

This article includes additional insight and information by Brandye, EvilEvilKitten, and Dancingdoc2:
The First Steps toward Real Intimacy

> Practice makes perfect but he doesn't practice long enough and I don't know what else to do. Suggestions?

True enough, yet "practice" also makes permanent as I am fond of telling my dance students, so please practice correctly. I recommend that the two of you together or independently read all of the articles listed in the Index found at the top of the main screen, discuss what you have learned, and add the information to what each of you already knows.

-doc

[QUOTE=tataa;275852]I'm trying to make my partner stay longer down there. Although some men don't find it enjoyable to give oral sex but if your trying to please someone it shouldn't matter. He stays down there for a minute if I'm lucky. But when I give him oral sex I make sure he's fully satisfied. Yesterday i swallowed the semen for the first time and it had the strangest taste ever. Not a pleasurable one. Is there anyway to make eating the vagina enjoyable? Lot of people find the smell of the vagina odd. I don't think mine is but he said vagina smells funny. He never ate the vagina before until he started doing it to me; which is ever so often. Point is, is there really an explanation on how to eat a vagina? Practice makes perfect but he doesn't practice long enough and I don't know what else to do. Suggestions? :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
1.) Try taking a shower together first, wash each other good, it's great foreplay
2.) Try a sucking on a Peppermint, also give him one too, strange as it may sound you both will enjoy...

personally i cannot get enough pussy. But i find that when my GF talks dirty to me when im down there it brings me to the next level... try telling him its good and tell him not to stop. tell him you wanna cum... that will be music to his ears.

The sound of a woman cumming is the best music in the world

I agree I cant get enough pussy The best sound and feeling to me is my gf moaning and screaming as the pleasure builds and/or she cums. when you give him a bj try focusing further down on the shaft not as much at the head.