Do lip/tongue piercings make kissing or oral sex more enjoyable ?
I was just wondering, since I'll be getting my lip and tongue pierced soon.
EDIT: Sorry, I just found the piercing thread.
I'm new here. :/
Wed, 01/17/2007 - 02:15
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Oral Piercings
Hey all I am new to this Forum, but I thought I might as well speak from experience!
Having your tongue pierced definitely makes oral sex much more enjoyable, I had my tongue pierced and my husband used to love for me to give him BJ's all the time according to him the were mind blowers!
All the best and enjoy!
Oh the virtues of youth.... Or, is all this so virtuous?
I am looking forward to the post that you might write in a few years when you realize just how rediculous this is and how many people that you come into daily contact with who are really repulsed by the image you present and do not desire to put forth any effort in getting to know you.
I was in a popular chain restaurant a few years ago and the busboy a few tables away looked like he had a snotty runny nose. It wasn't until he got up close an personal that I realized he had a nose ring. I spoke to the manager about the image he was presenting and noticed a few days later he was no longer working there.
As for tongue toys, I find it very distracting talking to someone who is moving his/her tongue in obvious ways that bring attention to the metal object in the middle of their mouth. Most seem to be playing with it while engaged in conversation and it is just annoying as hell. Same goes for hugh holes in earlobes, rings in eyebrows, etc., et cetera, etc.
I do not have a problem with piercings in private places like the labia or navel or foreskin/hood.
OMG! Stay away from me with that needle!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I can't see how piercings would make kissing more enjoyable. In fact, I don't see the point :p of piercings at all. The idea of somebody hammering a nail through bits of my anatomy sounds damn painful to me. I'm not into masochism.
Well, since I was young I was always infatuated with body modifications. I've finally convinced my parents to let me get my lip pierced (I'm 17). I'm getting my tongue pierced as soon as I turn 18, which is this July.
I've heard alot of people say they like to kiss people with tongue/lip rings (Again, that's not why I want it done. I've always been into bod-mods), I was just wondering your views and opinions on it.
It's not Masochism, it's art. :)
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;163213]Oh the virtues of youth.... Or, is all this so virtuous?
I am looking forward to the post that you might write in a few years when you realize just how rediculous this is and how many people that you come into daily contact with who are really repulsed by the image you present and do not desire to put forth any effort in getting to know you.
I was in a popular chain restaurant a few years ago and the busboy a few tables away looked like he had a snotty runny nose. It wasn't until he got up close an personal that I realized he had a nose ring. I spoke to the manager about the image he was presenting and noticed a few days later he was no longer working there.
As for tongue toys, I find it very distracting talking to someone who is moving his/her tongue in obvious ways that bring attention to the metal object in the middle of their mouth. Most seem to be playing with it while engaged in conversation and it is just annoying as hell. Same goes for hugh holes in earlobes, rings in eyebrows, etc., et cetera, etc.
I do not have a problem with piercings in private places like the labia or navel or foreskin/hood.[/QUOTE]
Like one fella I know said : "Excuse me there son but was you in some sort a terrible fishin accident?":rolleyes: :rolleyes:
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;163213]Oh the virtues of youth.... Or, is all this so virtuous?
I am looking forward to the post that you might write in a few years when you realize just how rediculous this is and how many people that you come into daily contact with who are really repulsed by the image you present and do not desire to put forth any effort in getting to know you.
I was in a popular chain restaurant a few years ago and the busboy a few tables away looked like he had a snotty runny nose. It wasn't until he got up close an personal that I realized he had a nose ring. I spoke to the manager about the image he was presenting and noticed a few days later he was no longer working there.
As for tongue toys, I find it very distracting talking to someone who is moving his/her tongue in obvious ways that bring attention to the metal object in the middle of their mouth. Most seem to be playing with it while engaged in conversation and it is just annoying as hell. Same goes for hugh holes in earlobes, rings in eyebrows, etc., et cetera, etc.
I do not have a problem with piercings in private places like the labia or navel or foreskin/hood.[/QUOTE]
I'm not interested in body piercings because it's the new "trend". I was interested in them as a young child. I'd see someone on T.V, or some random guy on the street, and I thought "Wow, that's awesome. I want that". I didn't realize it was a trend until way later. So, it has nothing to with the "Virtues of youth".
As for your incident at the restaurant, what gives you the right to judge how he looks ? If you, or anyone else for that matter, is ignorant enough to judge somebody based on a piece of jewelry, then I wouldn't want to get to know you. I feel a person is judged by their character, their personality, their mind. Not if they have a tongue ring or not. I don't feel you, or anyone else, has a right to judge me, or anyone else, based on something so irrelevant. Who are you to say what we can and can not wear ? What makes you so important as to decide "That's gross, I don't want him washing MY dish".
As for your views on the tongue rings, that's your personal opinion. I know many people who love tongue rings, and I know many people who dislike them. They do not, however, view me as lower then them, or refrain from treating me with the respect and dignity I treat them; nore do they ignorantly judge me, based on my piercings (Or anyone else's, for that matter, seeing as how I don't have them yet)
Guess it's all in the eye of the beholder. In today's "politically correct" world, everything is supposed to be acceptable. Truth is though that if it's too far out there from the mainstream you have got to accept that not everyone is gonna like it. When I was a kid it was long hair. If it was too far over your ears you were a hippy freak.
The one's I get a kick out of is the women ya see at walmart with a half top, tight jeans and 50lbs of rolls hanging out everywhere but they got all these pierceings and tats. Like that somehow improves thier appearance? Maybe they figure it'll draw your attention away from the fact that they need to eat a salad & go to the gym? Me & my GF just look at each other & shake our heads.
[QUOTE=Old Kid;163251]Guess it's all in the eye of the beholder. In today's "politically correct" world, everything is supposed to be acceptable. Truth is though that if it's too far out there from the mainstream you have got to accept that not everyone is gonna like it. When I was a kid it was long hair. If it was too far over your ears you were a hippy freak.
The one's I get a kick out of is the women ya see at walmart with a half top, tight jeans and 50lbs of rolls hanging out everywhere but they got all these pierceings and tats. Like that somehow improves thier appearance? Maybe they figure it'll draw your attention away from the fact that they need to eat a salad & go to the gym? Me & my GF just look at each other & shake our heads.[/QUOTE]
Of course I accept that. I'm perfectly fine with people not liking piercings or tattoos. However, to go to the manager of a restaurant and complain that the busboy had a nose ring is very ignorant. If people can't accept, then they should tolerate it. Not try to force someone to do something they don't want to do.
Ive kissed someone who had a lip ring and a 0 gauge tongue ring.
It was pretty awkward to say the least lol.
I don't mind tongue rings I guess, it is annoying when it affects their speech, or they are constantly playing w/ it, clicking it on their teeth!!!!
A vibe held just behind the scortum makes oral sex really great for him - so forget sticking needles etc through your tongue - buy a vibe instead!
Yath if you wanth tho thalk like thith geth a thongue ring.
haha, thanks for the advice. But, I don't want to improve oral sex. I heard that's a perk, but it's not my main reason.
I hear that alot, about the speach thing. The people I know with their tongue pierced doesn't talk like that. It must be placement of the stud that determines how you speak. I'm not sure.
Well, the way I see it, any form of 'body modification' is just self mutilation. Others will see it differently, of course, but that's the way it seems to me.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;163213]Oh the virtues of youth.... Or, is all this so virtuous?
I am looking forward to the post that you might write in a few years when you realize just how rediculous this is and how many people that you come into daily contact with who are really repulsed by the image you present and do not desire to put forth any effort in getting to know you.
I was in a popular chain restaurant a few years ago and the busboy a few tables away looked like he had a snotty runny nose. It wasn't until he got up close an personal that I realized he had a nose ring. I spoke to the manager about the image he was presenting and noticed a few days later he was no longer working there.
As for tongue toys, I find it very distracting talking to someone who is moving his/her tongue in obvious ways that bring attention to the metal object in the middle of their mouth. Most seem to be playing with it while engaged in conversation and it is just annoying as hell. Same goes for hugh holes in earlobes, rings in eyebrows, etc., et cetera, etc.
I do not have a problem with piercings in private places like the labia or navel or foreskin/hood.[/QUOTE]
Actually, I was thoroughly disgusted by this post as well. I have a nose ring and a (new) lip ring, the only two piercings (besides my ears, in which I have five) that I've ever wanted.
First of all, I don't care what kind of image I present to people who don't know me. Sure, they might have been good friends for all I know, but obviously anyon who doesn't want to talk to me simply because I have two piercings that just so HAPPEN to be on my face, tells me that they're rediculously judgemental, and I want nothing to do with that type of person anyway.
Secondly, Who are you to judge a person just because they have a piercing, I've seen many a waiter or waitress with piercings, lip rings, tongue rings, nose rings. As far as I'm concerned, that person was delegated to the back, to being a bus boy, to washing dishes, And i've seen scarier dish washers than just some guy with a piercing. Perhaps you should find the dishwasher that looks like a serial killer, and tell the owner of that company to keep him, because he has no piercings.
I work for a cell phone company, where you are required to look professional on a daily basis, and I've got my piercings. My assistant manager has his OWN nose stud, I've got two, and one of the other girls has her tongue and nose pierced. Aside from a few joking comments when the three of us are all working, no one has ever said anything.
Piercings are no longer something the few have. More and more people are getting them, for whatever reason, and everyone has the right to wear and enjoy thier piercings without people judging them or getting them fired.
Surely you should feel bad for getting a young man, who harmed you in no way, fired, simply because you felt he was not good enough to wash your dishes.
I'm pretty suprised by the whole tone of this thread: it seems like there are a lot of posters who take issue with facial piercings.
But, Slappy, I say forget them. They have no right to judge you, and you will find plenty of other people who love both the aesthetic and the feel of your new piercings.
I have no piercings myself, but I've always liked the look of well-maintained facial piercings of all kinds. What's more, piercings are really fun to explore, for both you and your partner. I've found that kissing someone with lip and tongue piercings can be exciting just because it is a bit different; the landscape is more varied.
As for oral sex, to be honest, I have never noticed a dramatic difference between a tongue with a stud and one without. But I can't draw any conclusions, because I've never tried a controlled experiment: the same person with the stud in and then with the stud out. I'll let you know if i do!
I guess your fine as long as you don't decide to work for a Fortune 500 company at the Executive level. Also, I have not noticed too many attorneys in court rooms w/them either, or doctors! Heck when I was in nursing school, eons ago, I had to remove my second pair of earrings and my engagement ring (even had to wear the "nursing cap")! Soon, I found if you want to play (work) in certain areas, you look & dress the part. What peircings you display, are more appropriately showed off outside of the work place, where you have more liberty with non-conformity.
in england, very recently amongst young people (16-30ish) piercings, especially visible ones have become a sign on respect and wealth, the more the better in that respect. i love lip piercings (only lower lips, upper lip bars are incredibly chavish). and i love my lip ring. i got mine done the day after my last school exam, age 16, bout a year ago. i didn't ask my parents i told them i was getting it done becuase it's legal at 16 without parental consent so they didn't have a say. too much direct movment can cause it to migrate. but they're good for kissing. my boyfriend had never kissed anyone with a lip piercing before me and he said it felt weird at first but he said pretty soon after he didn't notice anymore:)
and in response to sera300's last post. 'professionals' never have visible piercings other than one pair of earrings and they usually take those out! what the point of that!? anyways, i would never do a job like that anyway, and i would certainly never take a piercing out for anyone or anything, especially my lip ring, it's part of me. i only lose a piercing if it grows out or i take it one to get it done again in a slightly different place. how i love piercings. im nearly 17 and although i only have 16 piercings at the moment, i have had 21 done and i might get a few more soon...
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;163213]Oh the virtues of youth.... Or, is all this so virtuous?
I am looking forward to the post that you might write in a few years when you realize just how rediculous this is and how many people that you come into daily contact with who are really repulsed by the image you present and do not desire to put forth any effort in getting to know you.
I was in a popular chain restaurant a few years ago and the busboy a few tables away looked like he had a snotty runny nose. It wasn't until he got up close an personal that I realized he had a nose ring. I spoke to the manager about the image he was presenting and noticed a few days later he was no longer working there.
As for tongue toys, I find it very distracting talking to someone who is moving his/her tongue in obvious ways that bring attention to the metal object in the middle of their mouth. Most seem to be playing with it while engaged in conversation and it is just annoying as hell. Same goes for hugh holes in earlobes, rings in eyebrows, etc., et cetera, etc.
I do not have a problem with piercings in private places like the labia or navel or foreskin/hood.[/QUOTE]
Wow, I was surprised to read this coming from you. Not everyone feels that way about them, and I'd say a great many disagree and find it beautiful. In fact, I was just talking to my BF about how wonderful it is that you see more tattooed people in white collar jobs. Especially those in the medical field. I'm happy to see that it is becoming more acceptable for people to express themselves with body art.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;163213]Oh the virtues of youth.... Or, is all this so virtuous?
I am looking forward to the post that you might write in a few years when you realize just how rediculous this is and how many people that you come into daily contact with who are really repulsed by the image you present and do not desire to put forth any effort in getting to know you.
I was in a popular chain restaurant a few years ago and the busboy a few tables away looked like he had a snotty runny nose. It wasn't until he got up close an personal that I realized he had a nose ring. I spoke to the manager about the image he was presenting and noticed a few days later he was no longer working there.
As for tongue toys, I find it very distracting talking to someone who is moving his/her tongue in obvious ways that bring attention to the metal object in the middle of their mouth. Most seem to be playing with it while engaged in conversation and it is just annoying as hell. Same goes for hugh holes in earlobes, rings in eyebrows, etc., et cetera, etc.
I do not have a problem with piercings in private places like the labia or navel or foreskin/hood.[/QUOTE]
That is quite prejudice. I have had a couple facial piercings (tongue and labret) and I have quite long hair, a rather hippi-esh appearance. If you saw me, you would probably think I am a no good slacking pothead. And you would be quite wrong. I'm more the type of person who would put most people ahead of myself, going out of the way to help someone (if there is a mutual respect between us) and if I am working I hate doing nothing so I will almost always find some work to do.
Point I'm trying to make can be summed up with a quite old cliche.
Don't judge a book by it's cover.
For my sixteenth birthday {almost a year ago} I got to choose between a car or a tongue ring.
I didn't have my license so I chose the peircing.
{I got the car anyway this year, because my mom is moving to a new school district where I'm going to have to drive to get to my school.}
Anyway, I'm the first girl my boyfriend has ever kissed who has a tongue peircing, and he says he loves it when we french kiss, that it feels so cool to him.
And it's great for giving head.
But I've heard from friends that it's really exciting to kiss their boyfriends when they have tongue/lip peircings, and vice versa {when guys kiss girls with tongue/lip rings.}
But I wouldn't know about the lip, just the tongue.
But yeah. Have fun with it, your tongue will swell like nothing else, so keep a bottle of ibuprofen nearby to reduce swelling, unless you have no problem not being understood for a few days. And flavorless listerine. Hurts, but keeps it clean.
^_^