My bf recently told me that he'd like me to give him oral more often. Its not something I enjoy doing but I'll do it once in a while cos I know he loves it. We're together almost a year and I'd say I've given him a bj about 8 or 9 times. But he wont go down on me. He said he tried it once with his ex and never wants to do it again. But he thinks its ok for guys to expect oral from their girl, but never give it in return.
It annoys me a bit. If he doesn't like giving oral then fair enough, I wont pressure him, but surely he should have the same respect for me?
Anyone else in this kind of situation?
Kick him to the curb and never look back... He's SELFISH, plain and simple.
Truer words were never spoken, Oedi!!
Move on, girl; move on!
Drag your teeth and he'll never want it again. :p
> My bf recently told me that he'd like me to give him oral more often. Its not something I enjoy doing but I'll do it once in a while cos I know he loves it.
Please tell me what you do not like or enjoy about performing oral on him? There are some Sticky posts on all this that might improve the situation for you.
> he wont go down on me. He said he tried it once with his ex and never wants to do it again. But he thinks its ok for guys to expect oral from their girl, but never give it in return.
Please ask him what it is that he does not like about stimulating and pleasuring you orally. There are some Sticky posts on this subject, also.
He reminds me of a meat and potatoes kind of guy who doesn't like anything green, red, or, yellow. My guess is that he has not yet acquired a taste for vaginal mucus. Yes, or no, it would be helpful to have more information from both of you.