> i love going done on my girlfriend and i no she loves it. is it bad that i like alot??

Absolutely, positively, indubitably--NOPE.

How would you answer the question if it was asked about her?

> when i give her oral im down there for some time an i think thats a bit bad??.

Why do you think that? Oral stimulation is functionally not so much different than if you were to use your fingers or a feather, piece of fur, etc. It is what it is--a means to an end. It only becomes a problem if you have not shaved, are rough in technique, uncaring, or prolong the activity to a point where she becomes tired, bored and sore.

> also i dnt seem to get any thing u no and i dont no what i should do??

Try any one or more of these ideas:
* Lick the clitoris
* Flick the clitoris
* Suck the clitoris
* Suck the Major and Minor Labias (lips)
* Lick "
* Fondle the labia and clitoris with your lips and tongue

* Blow air between your lips and against her skin so that your lips vibrate. You can augment the sensation by adding sound much like an outboard motor or lawnmower engine. For varying results try using more or less air and/or higher or lower pitches of sound. The escaping air passing your lips causing them to vibrate makes a very good substitute for an electric vibrator!

No, I do not know what you mean by "i dnt seem to get any thing u no". Please clarify.
If you mean that you did not get any boost to your arousal, the reason may have to do with you concentrating on her pleasure not on your own. (Wait until she turns the tables and works on you!)

Give these suggestions a try and as always, take your cues for what to do next from her reactions.