Alright ladies, shoot me straight on this one. I've got those pesky Fordyce's Spots on the shaft of my penis about 1" to 1.5" from the head (a patch of them about the size of a quarter) of my penis and some more towards the base of the shaft. It is also starts to bend left about 2 inches from the head. It's also about 6.5" long with a 5" girth.
Now onto the questions.
1) Realistically, would you care about performing oral on a penis like that, or is it one of those things you'd do for a second and then be like, let's just have sex/give handjob instead?
2)If a condom is worn, would you care about the guy having a crooked/Fordyce's spots on his penis?
3)If a condom is not worn (the few times I've had sex I've worn one) would you be able to feel the Fordyce's spots inside the vagina?
Thanks much for any replies. I've had to turn girls down because I'm embarrassed about this whole situation and didn't want them to find out. :(
Would not bother me if you admitted upfront that the spots were there and what they were. The bend makes no difference because I have never seen a perfectly straight one in personal or professional life. No they cannot be felt in the vagina. The vagina has no nerve endings and, therefore, really does not feel anything. Only very large inflamed spots may be perceived passing through the entroitus. I doubt even that.
My suspicion is that many women who have not seen Fordyce's spots would shy away. Therefore, the discussion ahead is important even giving her a chance to "look them up."
Talk to your doctor. These are really little pimples (sebaceous glands) that show up and hang around. There is some evidence that high doses of vitamin A can reduce them. Do not try this yourself because vitamin A is one of the few vitamins that can be overdosed and to do any good requires very high dose for a limited time followed by a maintenance dosage. Dermatogists are usually the ones who treat this.
Forget about the bend.
No matter what ALWAYS wear a condom. No debate.