ummm... just talk to her about it, as long as you don't phrase it raunchy i doubt she will get upset

[QUOTE=sambomatic1;236188]Both me and my girlfriend lost our virginity together a few months ago and we are continuing having sex as frequently.

[COLOR="blue">Uh..."continuing having sex as 'frequently'" as what--every few months? I think you probably mean something else.[/COLOR]

We stick strictly to foreplay and then 15 to 30 minutes of sex, the entire time me on top.

[COLOR="blue">Making love can last from a few minutes for a "Quickie" to perhaps an hour--much longer if time and inclination permit. The keys are in how your time is proportioned. Many couples nowadays operate under the misguided misconception that the way to an orgasm is with a kiss, a hug, and lots and Lots and LOTS of stroking. Wrong. Arousal and receptiveness are the sum of all the fooling around and making out that should happen first. Devote half an hour to forty five minutes or so before ever getting to Foreplay and then intercourse if that is the end goal. If it is, the man should be brought to the brink of a climax from all that has gone on before and not try to get to this point by stroking endlessly. Many women have reported that if intercourse lasts much long than ten minutes they become SORE, bored, and, tired.

If prolonged intercourse is desired; if multiple orgasms are desired, divide up your time and go back to making out in between.[/COLOR]

My problem is that I want her to open up sexually. Try some new moves and go a few more rounds but I don't want to make it awkward. I want to convince her not to seem so shy and embarrassed during sex and to feel open to express herself.
Any advice is more then welcomed and thank you[/QUOTE]

Your wishes are rooted in how she thinks of herself, how she was brought up, her self confidence and esteem, past experience (good AND poor), etc. You may have to wait for her to sort some emotions and emotional baggage. Certainly, having discussions can be beneficial. I suggest reading the articles listed in the Index found at the top of the main screen. After you and your girlfriend read each, then consider discussing the information with her at a time when the two of you are not planning to be romantic.

Be available for her. Be responsive to her. Do not push. Romance and sex are vastly different for women than for men. Her outlook, expectations, and desires can be very different from yours. Understanding this and understanding the differences will help advance the cause on her timetable, not yours.

Much success also hinges on how comfortable she is with you and with how much trust she has in you. If you mess with this aspect of your relationship, you can damage it beyond repair. While she builds trust in you and in the relationship, you will probably find that her boundaries for how far you can go will broaden. (This is also discussed in an article.)

I hope this is of help.

to keep it short, as said before just talk to her, make it sound interesting and fun, get her to experiment, find out for herself the comfortable positions for her, try them, out together and see which positions suite you both. As you're both new to this, dont make it too complicated, boring or dull, just try whatever you're comfortable with and the main thing is to communicate honestly and open your imaginations!!!!!
Have fun & enjoy!!!

You just started a few months ago, and you're worried because she's not as eager to experiment as you are? Jeez, give it some time..

If you're like everyone else, there's gonna be many embarrassing moments and goofy stuff that will happen (like one time our dog licked my butt while my wife and I were..), being there for each other during those moments is what builds trust/makes people comfortable with each other, not some magic word.

Let it flow naturally..

Look at the sticky post entitled The Program - few things work better.

Also it is "My girlfriend and I" - you always put the other person first - so you don't seem like a lout.

Look up some stuff that you want to try and work out how to do it before you try anything...you don't want her feeling awkward if she can't do something properly or she might not want to try it again..then just talk to her about it. Don't try anything too extreme at first, maybe just try to get her to be on top...that's simple but can open up an entire new selection of positions to try. Don't force her, let her think about it. If you can, maybe try switching positions after you've already started sex to her being on top...that's sometimes easier than starting that way.

Hope that helps.