My girlfriend can't seem to have an orgasm unless her legs are straight and she is tightening them really hard. I can't get her to orgasm during sex because there are not many positions where she can keep her legs completely straight and we can both be comfortable for an extended period. Has anyone encountered this issue with the girl's need for her legs to be straight in order for her to achieve orgasm? When her legs are straight, I can give her an orgasm from oral sex really quickly. When she bends them it takes ALOT longer and only works about 20% of the time. Obviously weening her away from straight-legged orgasms isn't too successful. If anyone has overcome this issue, please share. Thanks.
Thu, 05/25/2006 - 02:58
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Only when her legs are straight
I have never heard of that one... but everyone has their own little thing that helps them get off.
One position I can think of right off is her laying on her stomach. Then you straddle her about thigh height...and enter her from behind like that. My b/f likes this position but something says it feels "too good" lol.
I'd have to say that the rear entry with the female laying on her stomach usually results in a short session for me :D . I find that this position usually generates a great deal of additional friction and I usually wont last long.
My wife and I, most of the time, resort to a rear entry position when I am having a problem finishing in other positions. For me I find a great deal of additional stimulation in this position, possibly because of the angle at which I enter her.
1. You are not giving her anything - her orgasm is hers; yours is yours.
2. Read around, especially in Chick Chat - Female Sexual Response.
3. One-quarter of all women never reach orgasm; Half do not reach orgasm through penile thrusting alone; only a quarter of us regularly reach orgasm through penetration and thrusting.
What is goin on with your g/f is that the legs straight and and specifically positioned places her clitoris at the right spot, angle or whatever to get the proper stimulation that arouses her and does not become overly sensitive.
It would be more meaningful, and we could be more helpful, to hear her side: how does she masturbate and what feelings come from other positions. This is something that you two can work on but YOU cannot solve the issue.
I would not even worry about that for one moment. She's having orgasms and obviously having a blast too so go with it dude.
I'm a guy but I have that same "problem". I really don't consider it a problem though cuz it allows me to extend our love making. She really likes it to cuz in order for me to cum she usually has to be on top. I rather enjoy being able to control my orgasm. The only thing that I don't like is that sometime when I'm getting head its hard for me to cum and I don't want her to become uncomfortable from doing it so long.