From the time I was in high school I sensed older women could
be something special. I had noticed the girls always wound up
with guys a year or two years older. In school the guys had to repress their jealousy, bitterness, even anger when the girl they liked was going out with guys who were upper classmen,
had jobs, cars, motorbikes, and every things we would have like to have had then. Some guys who got an early start and delt in drugs etc could do it and even date girls who were a few years older than they were.

For me it happened in my late twenties, when I met a beautiful woman who had become a widow as her husband had had a heart attack suddenly. He had provided for her
with life insurance etc so she was left in a stable situation to just morn and get over her grief for awhile until she could carry on.

I was involved with some property next to where she lived and got to know her in that spring. We became closer
and spent time together in the evening until we started holding each other and kissing goodbye. Our kisses lingered longer and the tension found us fondling and rubbing each other until we decided to make love. I had a new car, motorcycle, motorboat, money, and optios to take trips and take her along. She told me how very old she had been feeling until I came along. We did things she had only read about in magazine articles and felt alive again she would tell me. The older men in the neighborhood were growing jealous
now.

I couldn't have asked for more in my relationship with her. She was lonely and I knew about all I could offer her was
affection and sex. When she took me around in public her friends didn't fein much approval but I treated them like they
were as anyone else I knew. Some simply wouldn't speak to me while others had a curiosity and seemed even amused.
Possibly a throw back to feelings they had harbored in their
earlier years.

Her kids were married and living elsewhere, and her daughter
acted like she couldn't believe it. Like I was an alien from a UFO who had came here to do her mom. I was nice to her and
she grew more comfortable with me around...but it was just the way she looked at me all the time. Like the way your dog looks at you when you're naked. But what she couldn't comprehend her mom and I sure relished.

She found a fellow more her own age with a good job and they married and moved. I see her from time to time when she is in and we hug and kiss and talk about old times over coffee. She is always telling her friends about me and how I
helped her pull out of it after her first husbands death. I think
we will always be special friends from the relationship we had for awhile. I knew(as I was experienced enough by my late twenties to know) that she needed someone for a more conventional relationship to go on with in her life. It was beautiful while it lasted and I felt more complete. Many men who are her age and want to date young girls have their hearts broken when they must give it up and let her go with someone her own age to begin her future. May thru December relationships aren't for everyone, but I'm glad I had my taste and will always savor it. Most young guys marry a woman a few years younger, have kids, work, and grow old with their wife. It is rare to be on the other side of this equasion and be a young guy with an older woman who has been married, given birth, raised children, and become a widow early and able to share sexual prowess with a younger lover.

My greatest respect for the older women who will concider a younger guy....if even for a short time.

eDJ

Well, I'm a girl and I've always liked older guys. As a matter of fact, I've only ever truly liked one person that was younger than me. Other than him, everyone I was ever attracted to was older...whether it be by just a year or two, or even in the current case, about 20 years. lol.

Same here, im mostly into women of their 30s and 40s and im only 17. I don't even know why but im so attracted to older women.

then again I also love girls my age too

I'm with you on this, I love older mature women myself. I'm 27 and I dig women in their 30's and up. I love to get into mature porn. That is believe it or not one of my biggest fantasies is to have sex with an older woman. Some women in their 30's, 40's, 50's and 60's can be very attractive.

The only reason older women love to date and have sex with younger men because the mature women wish they can be young again. If you were that age, you'd want to have sex with a younger person, believe me...

Would you date my mother? Pleaseeee, jk. And hey, if it works for you...then thats cool. They are over legal age, you will be over legal age soon, so I see no problem and I don't get why this wouldn't be normal.

Well bless your heart. As an older woman I thank you for thinking we are desirable.