Ok, the problem is this. I'm now going out with a guy older than me (i'm 16 he's 18). We're going to see each other in august, and well, i know what he wants ;), well we both want it, but i'm scared, with him being a little more experienced at sex than me, if i won't be good enough. We've kinda been flirting and falling for each other for 4 years now, and have only recently got together (i used to live in a different country and now we live in the same, it makes things easier), so i think this means he is serious....right?
What does the typical 18 year old male want in sex? I've waited 4 years for him and i'm not about to lose him now!!
Any help on this would be very much appreciated, by us both ;)
Maya Minx
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Stat rape can cause all sorts of nasty things. Be careful.
she is legal so wouldn't be rape. hey are you a virgin? Don't rush into anything just to keep a guy no matter how long you have wanted him. If u trust him and feel ready then go for it. Prob best to tell him it your first time so that he can take it slow etc. Best advice is to relax. talk to him about how you feel, don't rush it. It would prob be best in bedroom rather then in for example a car and always always use protection no matter wat excuse a man uses.
More importantly, what does the typical sixteen year old woman want in sex? Or even better, what do you want. Go to Chick Chat and find the thread Am I ready? Think it over.
I started too young and the sweating out a period each month was not worth it for what I was (not ) getting. A few years later it is much more manageable.
Tallie: Either write in a language that resembles English or do not post in Chick Chat. That is from a Scot!
[QUOTE=Talie]she is legal so wldn't b rape.[/QUOTE]
I don't know the laws in the UK (where she's listed), but in the state of Ohio, you can legally have sex once you turn sixteen. However, you can only legally have sex with other sixteen- and seventeen- year olds. At eighteen, you can legally have sex with other people eighteen or older. Review your local laws before you become sexually active, and always, always use protection.
In answer to your questions... No i am not a virgin, i have been sexually active for over a year (lol please dont tell mom!).
We've both been telling each other exactly what we want, for 4 years, and i do want him, but i guess in person it'll be different right? My only other problem is one i posted sharing a problem with another member, (not being able to come) but i dont know if its just me, or because my ex was...actually disappointing.....but thats another story for another time lol.
I have only used protection 3 times, before my ex (we were together 2 years, fiance for 1 of those) and i had tests done which gave us the "all clear", and ive never yet fallen pregnant....but being a partner of which i dont know his history etc..i plan to be careful!!!
Regarding my other problem may i pm you, Brandye, to ask you more? You seem to know more about it than i do being older and more experienced....
Thank you all, but please keep the advice coming, the date we've set to see each other is august 6th........
Well, we met. And it was perfect. We're seeing each other again over christmas with any luck. Thanks for the advice peoples :)