hi,
i am 19 and ihave a boyfriend of 34 years old. lately, he's been asking me if i want to go sleep at his house. do you think it is for sex ? my friend tell me this is for sure because a guy this age wouldn't be just looking to play some games, he's looking forward sex also. i'm a little worried. what do you think ?
Sat, 11/25/2006 - 04:13
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older boyfriend
Of course he wants sex!
...and, he wants to "rock the cradle" so to speak!
Please consider that if you have to wonder about this, you may not be ready to follow through.
If she isn't 'ready' then she shouldn't be dating.
The thing is I'm a virgin and I don't really know if I'm ready to do it with him. I'm scared. And him he's the contrary. Hes really experienced,
he's 34 and she's 19...and they said it would never last!! Hmmmmmmmmmpft
He's 34 and if he weren't experienced, I'd be scared. Since he is - you have very little to fear. He should take very good care of you. One of the reasons to date an older man is his experience. Relax. Deep breaths and enjoy.
I'd be scared that a 34 man?? would be having a healthy relationship with a 19yr old?? Once your finished screwing...I'd wonder what the conversations would be about??...if they are intellectually and philosophically matched...that would even scare me more!!...but then again..that is my opinion...I vote that the 34 yr old dewd TURN IN his MAN CARD, immediately!!
If you have any doubts then dont go through with it. Your virginity is something to cherish and hold on to. Older men are more experienced and a lot better in bed though.
But during my first time, will he know how to act. I mean will he go slowly and all ?
Yes, if you talk to him about it.
A trifle judgmental there Luvs.
Ok so what was so obscene about my posts in this thread?
If you cannot send me a private message and explain yourself, you shouldn't be posting rep points.
Have the courage to talk.
I did not I swear made you loose any rep points, I don't even know how.Why are you accusing me of that ?
only go if your prepared to sleep with him
it WILL happen.
get over it.
Not accusing anyone in particular but someone from this thread deemed my replies here obscene.
For the record, there is nothing terribly wrong about anyone dating anyone else as long as neither party is being used or abused. Just judging a relationship solely upon the ages of the participants is wrong. It may not be your thing but that does not make it wrong.