like i said in my last thred me and my boyfriend are both very inexperienced and both very new to the whole sex thing. it's quite srange everytime we have sex or try to it is impossible for him to cum inside me either it takes to long and e both just get bored or it wont happen, i know he is fine because he never has a problem cumming when masterbating or haveing oral, this effects me and now i wont orgasm at all have you got any tips to make it just work better for us?
Tue, 06/05/2007 - 21:12
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ok this is quite a compicated one
If he is using a condom they can decrease sensitivity, also the sensation of the vagina is much different then of a hand; the rhythm, grip, speed, is very different. It can be in part due to being nervous. Be certain you are properly lubricated, have him put some of the lube in the tip of the condom, and prior to beginning intercourse have him (and you sufficiently aroused) nearing the brink of a climax, then have him penetrate you. Read through some of the sticky's under the forum heading "New to sex".
Start here:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/21912-one_stop_shopping--begin_h...
i find it realy hard to masterbate alot of the time, my fingures get tired and ache and i just loose interest after a while, do you have any tips which would help me make it more interesting and then fianly get me to orgasm?