Jack, you have to know and understand that you are nineteen and as a result are at your sexual peak. From here on until you draw your last breath, decades from now, it is all down hill, albeit very slowly. For her, she is simply driven by hormones as are you, yet will not reach her peak for several more years.

Are you "being too blind about this"? Not if all you are after is a roll in the hay with no strings attached. If your purpose is more meaningful, then yes, you are. Please consider that as part of raging hormones is your curiosity about experiencing someone else stimulating your body and emotions instead of yourself and your hand, and, that sexual expectations are part of what every teen must manage and come to terms with. A lot of fellas are so horny that they would settle for a blow-up doll if they could get their hands on one! That you are talking or writing to an actual person makes coping with life's anticipations that you have orchestrated just that much more difficult.

First, slow way down.
Second, get to know each other in person
Third, as you are doing these things, and after a respectable
length of time, begin the physical aspects of a relationship by
first Necking, then eventually moving on to Petting, then Heavy
Petting, all before getting to the Foreplay stage, and beyond.

As part of learning about intimacy is in learning to trust the
other person and to be comfortable with this new found level
of intimacy.

I hope this is of help. Got questions? As mentioned in your other thread, please familiarize yourself with the Index found at the top of the main screen and read every article it lists. Knowledge is empowering.

As Doc said, slow down a bit.
>she is always turning me on
Whatever she is saying to you may have a very different meaning to you than it does to her. At 15 she could be trying out being sexually suggestive in a “safe” (non-contact) environment. Your raging sex kitten could be a shy girl who is just getting her courage up to type some “dirty words.” This may call for some pretty adult understanding on your part.

You're 19 and getting hung-up on a 15/16 yr old girl?!?!

Just stop and go find someone who is 18 or 19, willya please.

She's being all 'pert and cute' but she's not yet fit - she's just practicing on you. She's not serious.

But you are getting all serious so you should be out hunting girls your own age off-line in real life.

[CENTER][SIZE="6">...and that as they say is that.

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no, it was helpful, you are just "being blind" to it.
Shut up and listen to what the EXPERTS say

Okay, I shall be specific:

Instead of lusting, not love but lust, and mooning after after a young girl who will never meet you in real life like some love sick PUPPY; grow a set, get out there in real life and meet girl who just might give you a chance at a decent in-the-flesh relationship.

Learn to NOT waste your time.

Just say "hello. I'm jack."