Ive been going out with my girlfriend for a while and we have done it alot kinda ive yet to give here an orgasm but from what she's says and the way she act when were doing it she said it doesnt matter.
Is that true does it really matter if i give her an orgasm or not?
Tue, 07/04/2006 - 08:43
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Ok I Need To Know
Yes, not all women are able to orgasm... and most who do need clitoral stimulation not just thrusting. just try different things.
As Brandye would say... we are all responsible for our own orgasms.
:cool: thanks for answering my ?
well hey...i don't know if you need anymore answers or anything but i am a woman and i have the same problem... we enjoy it even if we don't orgasm... for some women it is a sycological thing... talk to her ... ask her what goes through her head... if i were talking to her i could give her some advice...i am not sure how long she has been in the game but most women clentch cause when having sex the penis rubs against a nerve connected to the blater and they clentch cause well simpley they think they are going to go pee.... that is one sign of an orgasm.... so a little advice... tell her that.... have her go to the restroom before sex and tell her that... like i said it is a major problem for women.
I was just responding to a PM and I said the same thing--it doesn't always matter that I have an orgasm. I get enjoyment out of giving enjoyment to my man and I don't always go for an orgasm in our sessions. As a matter of fact, for me, sometimes I like to let them build from one or two sessions. Eh, personal choice there, I reckon.
I also read something in a magazine the other day that was saying something similar, that it's not always about the orgasm for the woman and that she can get enjoyment from the session without having an orgasm. Okay, ladies--don't flame me!! :p
hey thanks for your answers to
what does brandye mean by youre all responsible for your orgasms?